i don't understand the point of the boudoir pics ...

i have nothing against them, i just don't understand them ....

how is it wedding-related? why do it now?

i never even heard of them before this site so i apologize for my stupidity

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Posted by AngnShaun

a gift for FH!

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ohhh .....
so when you go to the photographer, do you tell FH what you're going to do, or do you keep it a secret?

I am getitng them done more for myself and also a gift for FH...its cool to see in 20 years how hot you look in provocative clothing..
However when I told my married friend about b-pics she said (1) what the heck are B pics? and (2) well, that kinda sounds narcisstic to me...

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Posted by AngnShaun

a gift for FH!

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a gift for fh

shiit!!!
its a gift for me!!!

i need to look back and say
damnnnnn
i was hot at 34

yeah im doing them as a wedding gift to FH...

for me, its going to eternalize a time before being his 'wife'... it will be me, in the best shape (fingers crossed) that ive been in a long time, that id never want him to forget through all the years that we're together, he can see me as his 'girlfriend' or 'fiance' forever!!

of course, to FH its going to he sexy as hell!!!!!!!! but i like to think there's more to it than that...

we're never going to be 'engaged' again....and once we're married, priorities might change, bodies may change, outlooks may change....so if this is the only time id do something like this, so be it! he will love it, and it will mean so much more to me and him (cuz hes mushy) than a couple of pics in lingerie!!!

once im married, ill be wanting to do Pregnant lady photo shoots!! so im very excited about sexy lingerie photos of myself!!

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

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Posted by AngnShaun

a gift for FH!

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ohhh .....
so when you go to the photographer, do you tell FH what you're going to do, or do you keep it a secret?

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im NOT keeping it a secret....for a couple of reasons....

1. FH isnt into magazines w/naked (half naked whatever) women in them...ive not once seen playboy or maxim in his house, nor does he like adult movies, etc.....i wanted to know honestly if this was something good to invest money into, or if he'd rather just get a watch....id be PISSED if i did all this n he didnt care

2. FH is a typical jealous possessive guy, and if i gave this to FH after the rehearsal dinner, night before the wedding (which is when im doing it) and he didnt know that its a woman photog, hed be up ALL NIGHT freaking out thinking a MAN took pics of me like that! so i avoided that problem by telling him about it...

im keeping all outfits, themes, and everything like that a secret though....

I really like the idea

but I am just way to shy to be so naked in front of a photographer ...

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Posted by Rosalind_75

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Posted by AngnShaun

a gift for FH!

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a gift for fh

shiit!!!
its a gift for me!!!

i need to look back and say
damnnnnn
i was hot at 34

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not gonna lie... thats part of my reasoning also... but if they werent for him I wouldnt be doing them at all! lol

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

I really like the idea

but I am just way to shy to be so naked in front of a photographer ...

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thats why i chose a woman photog... and i dont plan on being that naked...

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

yeah im doing them as a wedding gift to FH...

for me, its going to eternalize a time before being his 'wife'... it will be me, in the best shape (fingers crossed) that ive been in a long time, that id never want him to forget through all the years that we're together, he can see me as his 'girlfriend' or 'fiance' forever!!

of course, to FH its going to he sexy as hell!!!!!!!! but i like to think there's more to it than that...

we're never going to be 'engaged' again....and once we're married, priorities might change, bodies may change, outlooks may change....so if this is the only time id do something like this, so be it! he will love it, and it will mean so much more to me and him (cuz hes mushy) than a couple of pics in lingerie!!!

once im married, ill be wanting to do Pregnant lady photo shoots!! so im very excited about sexy lingerie photos of myself!!

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Gina, i have to say that's a great answer to the question.

i would love to do them but i don't have the extra money. maybe as a 1 year anniversary gift?

on a side i love the pregnant lady photo's. i think those are a great way to start off your child's baby book. i will definitely be taking those in the future.

i think a 1 year ann gift is still great!!!

it could show him after a year of being married, your STILL his sexy 'girlfriend'

i like to think that even though ill be a wife, ill still always be his girlfriend!!

so that is a good way to look at it!

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Posted by mzmahagony

I want to do them but I feel like its more a gift for me because Fh thinks that its just a waist of money. I want to look back and see how hot I was but I can do them anytime cuz I look hot everyday...lol...I'm thinking of doing maybe a centerfold in his fav mag instead and putting my pic on the cover, I think my FH would like that better. JMO

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haha ur too much!!! thats a cool idea tho too!!! so its not a whole book n as expensive, but unique n sexy!!

I really wanna do them for myself b/c I think it will be fun but I am giving them to FH as a gift as well. I am keeping it a secret & it's killllinggg me!! I wanna tell him but I wanna see his surprised face when I whip them out even more

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

haha ur too much!!! thats a cool idea tho too!!! so its not a whole book n as expensive, but unique n sexy!!

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lol..yea...I love taking pics so we have so many so I think the mag would be great....

'I am giving them to FH as a gift as well. I am keeping it a secret & it's killllinggg me!! I wanna tell him but I wanna see his surprised face when I whip them out even more'

Same here!

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Posted by AngnShaun

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Posted by Rosalind_75

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Posted by AngnShaun

a gift for FH!

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a gift for fh

shiit!!!
its a gift for me!!!

i need to look back and say
damnnnnn
i was hot at 34

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not gonna lie... thats part of my reasoning also... but if they werent for him I wouldnt be doing them at all! lol

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SAME HERE! oh for the sake of vanity!

oh, and i want to knock FI off his feet too!