Everyone is soooo stressed out for different reasons-me included-but no one wants my help with anything................
why oh why cant I just flippin elope??? Oh yeah FH doesnt want to!! WAAAHHHHHH
Im over it
LeeAnne
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none of my bridesmaids or MOH are helping with anything. they arent even asking how things are going! it makes me so sad! i feel your pain
VickiR510
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What do u mean your help for your own wedding???
Im a Pepper
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Do you mean everyone else is planning your wedding and not allowing you to help? That's terrible! I'm sorry you feel this way but hopefully you can get involved and have at least a little fun planning your own wedding!
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Wedding stuff and everyday stuff.....I get the feeling that everyone around me thinks Im a moron and totally incapable of doing anything!!
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arghh i hear that!! My BM hasnt called or asked about ne weddings details since the day i asked them to be part of it! Soo frustrating
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Posted by monkeybuttz
Wedding stuff and everyday stuff.....I get the feeling that everyone around me thinks Im a moron and totally incapable of doing anything!!
OH! Wellnow its time for you to speak up! its your wedding not theirs. Come on girl say what needs to be said. But in a mature & calm respectful manner. Such as : As much as i love your input on things. this is our wedding & we really want to do things our way. We are more then capable of choosing & deciding things together as a couple rather then as a group!
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I know how you feel! My BMs or MOH have not asked me anything! But don't worry when its time to assemble favors and invitations...they will be doing all of it!
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Posted by monkeybuttz
Wedding stuff and everyday stuff.....I get the feeling that everyone around me thinks Im a moron and totally incapable of doing anything!!
OH! Wellnow its time for you to speak up! its your wedding not theirs. Come on girl say what needs to be said. But in a mature & calm respectful manner. Such as : As much as i love your input on things. this is our wedding & we really want to do things our way. We are more then capable of choosing & deciding things together as a couple rather then as a group!
I agree, i would plan things on my own and only share when its time to share.
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Everyone is soooo stressed out for different reasons-me included-but no one wants my help with anything................
why oh why cant I just flippin elope??? Oh yeah FH doesnt want to!! WAAAHHHHHH
Im over it
We have ALL been there at some point or another! I go through periods where I am just so overwhelmed by everything that I just want to give up. I also get angry with my BP for not being that involved -- but I have learned that taking matters into my own hands and trusting that EVERYTHING will come together in the end makes it easier.
Sometimes it's a good idea to take a step back and remove yourself from the whole wedding planning scenario. Go treat yourself to a massage or a 1-on-1 yoga class to relax. Good luck!
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Posted by LeeAnne
none of my bridesmaids or MOH are helping with anything. they arent even asking how things are going! it makes me so sad! i feel your pain
Me too!!! It sux because my sister who is my MOH lives in San Diego and 2 of my BM have babies and one BM who can only be happy for me now because she has a boyfriend. She only calls me for medical advice, not how is it going, can I help you with anything! FH told me to not make her a BM but FH & I met at her birthday party, so how could I not? UGH! I too feel everyones pain!!
