I emailed my dad

I totally sound like a stuck up snot nose brat. but really, I dont know what else to do.

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Please tell your second born child to stop being a child and grow up.

Sorry, I am beyond frustrated, I feel like she doesn't care about this wedding or what makes me happy..she'd be 10 times angry if I pulled this with her, and she knows it.

A few of my friends would like to help plan my bachlorette party, since I couldn't ask them to be in the bridal party due to expenses, and they have even gone out of there way to research prices and events (dinner in the city, nothing over the top), and Rebecca is ignoring texts, being VAGUE and sketchy and is prioritizing her stupid job, when she's known about this for a year. I am very upset, and I am ready to say the hell with it and not let her plan anything because she cannot be responsible enough to handle this.

I know she has to 'pick herself up', but what else is she doing besides working? I'm tired of her lying to me, and I know, it all sounds soo 'familiar' and all, but this is someone's wedding, I would NEVER do this to her, or anyone else for that matter.

I cannot do anything from this point on thru October 15th, I have a mini-tax season here for extensions and my presence here is vital. I cannot use anymore vacation time to take days off until the wedding, and I've been spending my free time making sure I have everything down that I need. She knew all this...I gave her kelli & andrea's information back in February and she claims I never did, she said she emailed them, and I know Kelli & Andrea wouldn't lie to me, they said she never contacted them. I have saved SENT messages giving her this information because I really thought I didn't email her when I said I did and I knew I wasn't going crazy.

Or, please convince my arrogant future husband to drop everything and elope and screw this big wedding crap. This isn't exciting me anymore, it's making me GRAY and more angry by the minute. Sorry to sound like a brat, I know I am at this point, but I knew this was going to happen from the moment I expressed my concerns about her being the maid of honor when she started her little 'phase'. I thought this would AVOID drama, instead I feel it's created a bigger mess.

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just let your friends plan the bach-party and not your sister .... she doesn't even need to go, in fact! you will have just as much fun without her (and who knwos, maybe it'll be nice to get away from her)

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Posted by AwaitingAugust



just let your friends plan the bach-party and not your sister .... she doesn't even need to go, in fact! you will have just as much fun without her (and who knwos, maybe it'll be nice to get away from her)

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well i dont see much of her, and for a while there I was almost convinced she was excited for me. I have no idea where this is coming from.

her and my dad share the same personality. so glad I got my mom's. LOL.

I have sent my Dad similar emails about my brother, usually starting with, 'Your son is being ridiculous!'

If your Dad is anything like mine (he's the best), he'll repond with something like: 'She is a total screwball!'
My Dad called my brother a screwball a couple weeks ago b/c he was acting like a child, not in the same way as your sis, but he pisssed us off.

Anyhow, I hope your Dad can talk to your sis and convince her that she's being pretty selfish and to 'be there for her sister.'

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Posted by jhines4684

her and my dad share the same personality. so glad I got my mom's. LOL.

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well, hopefully your dad can convince your sis that she's needs to be more responsible if she's going to remain the MOH.