I feel like the guy...

Lucky27 Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:00 PM

I feel like the guy...

I feel like i am the guy who just keeps getting nervous about getting married! I get sooo scared just thinking about it... Does any one else feel like that? It's sex with one person for the rest of my life!!!

lwny427 Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:03 PM

Re: I feel like the guy...

I always thought that I would feel that way about the one guy thing, but honestly I can't really imagine being with anyone else at this point. I have no desire to.

I think getting nervous is normal though. It is a huge committment after all!

Annoulak Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:04 PM

Re: I feel like the guy...

Posted by lwny427

I always thought that I would feel that way about the one guy thing, but honestly I can't really imagine being with anyone else at this point. I have no desire to.

I think getting nervous is normal though. It is a huge committment after all!

Agreed!

Butterfly123 Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:06 PM

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I never wanted to have sex with more than one person so Im okay with it. I was planning on waiting til marriage until I met FH. I knew I was gonna marry him though. Im not nervous about that. Im just nervous about the wedding planning. But I can see how some people can be nervous about that.

lwny427 Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:16 PM

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Posted by Songstress

I never wanted to have sex with more than one person so Im okay with it. I was planning on waiting til marriage until I met FH. I knew I was gonna marry him though. Im not nervous about that. Im just nervous about the wedding planning. But I can see how some people can be nervous about that.

Wow. That is nice to stick to your guns with that.

One guy only was never my intention to be quite honest. I had a good amount of single time before I met FH and I had my fun with other guys. I feel like I got that out of my system, so I feel confident in my decision to commit to FH. For me, I really needed that time and wouldn't trade it for anything, but everyone is different.

Butterfly123 Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:19 PM

Re: I feel like the guy...

Posted by lwny427

Posted by Songstress

I never wanted to have sex with more than one person so Im okay with it. I was planning on waiting til marriage until I met FH. I knew I was gonna marry him though. Im not nervous about that. Im just nervous about the wedding planning. But I can see how some people can be nervous about that.

Wow. That is nice to stick to your guns with that.

One guy only was never my intention to be quite honest. I had a good amount of single time before I met FH and I had my fun with other guys. I feel like I got that out of my system, so I feel confident in my decision to commit to FH. For me, I really needed that time and wouldn't trade it for anything, but everyone is different.

Now FH is a different story. Im glad he got it all out of his system! He had his fun time thank God. I wouldnt want him having a mid-life crisis later on knowing he was only with me and thinking about all the women he could have been boinking while he was with me lol.

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Nov 30, 2007 10:53 PM

Re: I feel like the guy...

Posted by Annoulak

Posted by lwny427

I always thought that I would feel that way about the one guy thing, but honestly I can't really imagine being with anyone else at this point. I have no desire to.

I think getting nervous is normal though. It is a huge committment after all!

Agreed!

I also agree

AS Posted: Dec 01, 2007 12:32 PM

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The closer to the wedd, the more negative thoughts like these will occur in your mind. Fh told me he was scared too. I have thoughts like this too but I really dont care. At this point in my life Im ready to settle and get married

missK Posted: Dec 01, 2007 01:00 PM

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I can relate. Its a big thing and I dont want to be divorced like some of my friends, sad to say . I want it to be right. I think its just normal to think What if..... ??? And there are those that just 'know'.