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Are you guys the first in the group to be getting married? Maybe they don't know how to handle that? I know that FH has gone through a similar situation with his core group of friends because he is the first one to be getting married and over the past couple of years, he has really gotten over the whole clubbing and going out drinking thing so it seems like he and his friends just really didn't have much in common anymore... Maybe it's a similar situation? ![]()
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Guys can act bitchy just like girls do sometimes! I would encourage your fh to talk to one of his friends that he has known the longest to ask him what's going on and confront him or just ask the guy that still talks to him if he knows what the deal is. Chances are it has nothing to do with you but just something that went on between them.
Every now and then FH decides he can't stand one of his friends and avoids them for a few weeks, when i ask him why he has no response but then out of no where he's hanging out with them again!
Every now and then FH decides he can't stand one of his friends and avoids them for a few weeks, when i ask him why he has no response but then out of no where he's hanging out with them again!
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Awww...I'm sorry. Some people just don't know how to handle themselves when other people are going through great times in their life. FH had the same problem with like 3 or 4 of his friends, and they didn't talk for awhile, but now they are fine. Men are just werid. LOL> They don't know how to express any of their emotions. Did FH try asking them what was going on..? Maybe even at least to the one that is still talking to you guys??
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Awww...I'm sorry. Some people just don't know how to handle themselves when other people are going through great times in their life. FH had the same problem with like 3 or 4 of his friends, and they didn't talk for awhile, but now they are fine. Men are just werid. LOL> They don't know how to express any of their emotions. Did FH try asking them what was going on..? Maybe even at least to the one that is still talking to you guys??
I am going to have him talk to one of them cause we need to figure this out. One of his friends GF's who i used to be friendly with has given me the biggest attitude since we got engaged.. I figure she is just jealous cause his friend is never going to propose to her.. (well not for many many years.. hes not that type of guy). So when we finally saw eachother again at the party she didnt even say hello back and when one of the other girls asked to see my ring she looked at it and rolled her eyes. NO JOKE. What is wrong with ppl? I dont get it. If it were her I would be happy for her.. and if not i would at least pretend.
People get jealous very quickly and are HORRIBLE at expressing it. I had the same problem with my MOH once..yes, my MOH!! lol. I pulled her aside the first time I saw her do that I just asked her to be upfront with me. She said that she was jealous...plain and flat. LOL> She didn't even get the 'three words' yet from her BF... I would just talk to them. That usually solves everything... Best of luck. (Maybe even send an email??)
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Also, people grow apart. You and your FH are entering another stage in your life and things do change with friends. I went through it with friends that got married and again when they starting having kids. I may not be that they don't like your FH anymore just that things are different.
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If he's been friends with these guys for so long, I think he just has to flat out ask them what's up. In my experiences, guys don't usually ignore each other like this. It's petty, and sounds more like what high school girls do. Honestly, he just needs to talk to them to find out what's going on. It could be many things or maybe just a misunderstanding.
