I feel sad...

There are 3 girls that I used to work with that just declined coming to my wedding. I guess I should've known when the 3 of them didn't come to my shower either and made no effort to apologize afterwards. I dont know why I'm surprised or sad. But it really hurts my feelings that the 3 of them just dont care about me anymore. I know we dont see each other the way we used to when we worked together and I had a falling out with one of the girls, but I guess its safe to say the other 2 have taken her side. I thought we worked it out...i guess not. Now I'm sad...

Don't be sad.....unfortunately weddings can tell you who really cares about you and who doesn't. Sometimes people just grow apart and head in different directions. If they don't want to be there, then it's their loss....your day is still going to be amazing and you'll be there with the people who really care about you!

THEIR loss! just focus on all the people who love you that WILL be there! Better to know about people like that than to go on THINKING they care about you!

They don't deserve you anyway!

awwwww......i agree weddings show who really care! its their loss...your true friends will be there!!!

AWH I am sorry hunny-
people can be mean, maybe theyre just jealous. either way, forget them, you dont want anyone there that day who doesnt love you tremendously and who isnt genuinely happy for you. you know your liweddings brides love ya

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Posted by October Bliss

I went through something similar a few months ago. You're right to feel sad and even a little hurt, however, don't let it get in the way of the joy you will be feeling when your day gets here and you see FH standing at the end of that aisle waiting for YOU!!!

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oh wow, that visualization just made me feel soooo much better!