U all know about my previous relationship and all the drama with my breakup..tonite i found out that towards the end of my relationship my ex was 'talking ' to some girl and he ended up dating her since we broke up and she is UNDERAGE to say the least and works at the same place as him...i m dumbfounded. i dont know the extent of details but to think he could do this to us and my source is extremely reliable it is not made up info. he was persuing another girl while he was with me, risking his job b/c of her age and all for what..it makes me feel like i have no idea who this man i spent 3 yrs of my life with is..what other lies were there, how can i ever trust any1 again.. it makes me doubt him, myself, our relationship, life..i feel like throwing up!! i just wanna go to his house and beat the crap out of him for his stupidity. i just feel like i m never going to find someone, and i m so bitter and feel like i dont know what to do especially when now there is nothing i can do, it wont solve anything at all..im just so enraged, yet i feel like we really had a true love and he just changed soo much, i cant believe he could do that to me, does he have that little respect for me, i wanna hit someone right now...anyways i just needed to vent and u all have become like a little family to me so thanks for listening :)
allure
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I am so sorry for all that you have gone through Try to move on from this hurt & anger and dont go out and hit anyone Keep The Faith Mr Right is out there I know it
Bride2B93
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janwinterbridejoy
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you have to let go of the bitterness because you did everything you could to make your relationship work and it was him that messed up. just take him for what he is worth which isnt much and dont let him effect the rest of your life. its bad enough that he did such an awful thing but to allow him to get to you in the way that you might lose another possible wonderful relationships would be awful. it would be like your allowing him to hurt and take advantage of you over and over again. im speaking from exprience the best way to get back at him is to move on and live a happy life with a wonderful partner. i know beating the crap out of him lol but this is actually better because someday he is going be older and the same misreable cheater that he was back then and look back and the regret will set in lol. by then you will be sitting on your porth sipping a glass of wine with your new husband or playing with your beautiful kids
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hey
i know it hurts but please be thankful that you did not commit to spending the rest of your life with this person - you deserve much better. Don't worry - the pain will eventually go away
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kpny622
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As bad as this seems (and is), you should take it as a confirmation that you made the right decision by ending it with him. Is that the kind of man you would want as a father to your children?
Let me tell you I thought my EX was a standup guy while we were dating. But our breakup wasn't even cold yet when he started dating some floozy who tried to break us up in the past...who was also his best friend's fiancee!
So that's why people say that everything happens for a reason. Your EX will get what's coming to him in due time. Use the anger you feel now to help you get over him.
