i feel so stupid!

Snowflake08 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:12 AM

i feel so stupid!

FH went out tonight with his brother and he NEVER goes out - so why am i bothered by this? i feel silly that i'm a little annoyed by it and i know i shouldnt
he never questions me when i go out with my friends and i go out 10 times more than he does

MikeandJess Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:18 AM

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it's really funny you posted that. FH went to penn state for the weekend and I was really bothered by it, only because he's usually home with me. I know it's wrong and I can't help it, so if it makes you feel better I think we're acting normal.

failurebydsign Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:18 AM

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were girls..were supposed to get mad at things like this..its in our blood

you just miss him i bet

Toucan311 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:19 AM

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I totally understand! Its b/c he shouldnt even WANT to go out, he should want to be home with you only! At least thats what I think when FH goes out, even if its just to dinner w/his best man!

Snowflake08 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:19 AM

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thanks jess
i feel bad, its not that i dont trust him; i wouldnt be marrying him if i didnt - i dont know why it bothers me other than i could put money on it that they are at a t-tty bar right now LOL
he said he'll be home by 1 so that means like 230

MikeandJess Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:21 AM

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On the bright side I got to stay in tonight by myself and rent dreamgirls. FH wouldn't rent it with me

JTsGal829 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:23 AM

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i think it's worse when your FH is the type who never goes out.. like my FH.. he's not a go out and party type of person.. so if he wants to out of the blue i can't help but question why.I think it gets to me even more cause when i suggest going out to do things he's like nah.. but if his BM calls and says lets get drinks at the bar he doesn't even think twice. Most of the time he doesn't go anywhere special.. and he isn't gone for long... but i still can't help it.. so don't feel bad!!!

sorry.. did i just vent on your vent.. that was totally unintentional..lmaoo

Autumn08 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:24 AM

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If I got upset when FH went out without me then I'd be a hipocrit. But if it's sunday which is our day together I get upset because... well it's been our day to spend together. So I understand where you are coming from.

Snowflake08 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:35 AM

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thanks girls
the thing is, he used to go out with his brother EVERY weekend - since we've been together he hasnt gone ONCE and he keeps telling me that he's going to go one night so i really cant be upset
maybe its just the t-tty bar thing LOL
but then again, i cant get mad at that either

failurebydsign Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:36 AM

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its a Tltty bar..be mad..lol

Snowflake08 Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:37 AM

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Posted by failurebydsign

its a Tltty bar..be mad..lol

i really shouldnt though
its silly
he doesnt drink and he is NOT going to spend money there ( if u know what i mean) so i really shouldnt care

failurebydsign Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:41 AM

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Posted by Snowflake08

Posted by failurebydsign

its a Tltty bar..be mad..lol
i really shouldnt though
its silly
he doesnt drink and he is NOT going to spend money there ( if u know what i mean) so i really shouldnt care

lol..i understand..my Fh hates those places cause hes just not that type of guy..he truly gets uncomfortable there..and we got dragged into going together and he napped..

i wouldnt worry..im sure your ta-tas are worth his money though..lol

MikeandJess Posted: Sep 02, 2007 12:43 AM

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Posted by Snowflake08

thanks girls
the thing is, he used to go out with his brother EVERY weekend - since we've been together he hasnt gone ONCE and he keeps telling me that he's going to go one night so i really cant be upset
maybe its just the t-tty bar thing LOL
but then again, i cant get mad at that either

don't be upset, a titty bar is more of a social thing. I know you know that but sometimes it's hard to convince ourselves that these things don't bother us.