I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

twoifbysea Posted: Jul 11, 2009 04:17 AM

I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

I kinda figured it out a few days ago.... it's a 'birthday party' for FSIL at my other FSIL's house....

The thing is, I feel badly that they want it to be a surprise, but I am a TERRIBLE liar and I don't know if I can act shocked or whatever.

What should I do? Oh, and I have an outfit I want to wear, I think that would give it away, no? I think it would be weird if I brought it along to change into....

please help girls -- I'm nervous!

jlsg6201 Posted: Jul 11, 2009 06:56 AM

Re: I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

Don't be nervous, well at least try not to be - you are still going to be somewhat surprised .... you don't know the decorations, who will be there, the favors, the gifts you will be opening - so you may know the date but there are still elements that will surprise you.....and when everyone sees you and yells surprise - you are going to be filled with every emotion there is that you will look surprised People are going to say 'did you have any clue' and it wouldn't be be to respond 'i thought it could be today but never did I think it would be this amazing'

It will all work out and I really feel that even though you know the day that you are still going to be so surprise with seeing how much you are loved and cared for - I know that was my biggest surprise on my shower day!

Good luck and I can't wait to see pics!!

michelle1024 Posted: Jul 11, 2009 08:15 AM

Re: I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

don't be nervous! wear your outfit! and when you see all the special women in your life in one room you will be excited -- you won't have to fake it! :)

HotAir Posted: Jul 11, 2009 08:24 AM

Re: I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

Posted by jlsg6201

Don't be nervous, well at least try not to be - you are still going to be somewhat surprised .... you don't know the decorations, who will be there, the favors, the gifts you will be opening - so you may know the date but there are still elements that will surprise you.....and when everyone sees you and yells surprise - you are going to be filled with every emotion there is that you will look surprised People are going to say 'did you have any clue' and it wouldn't be be to respond 'i thought it could be today but never did I think it would be this amazing'

It will all work out and I really feel that even though you know the day that you are still going to be so surprise with seeing how much you are loved and cared for - I know that was my biggest surprise on my shower day!

Good luck and I can't wait to see pics!!

Perfectly said!!!!

twoifbysea Posted: Jul 11, 2009 08:32 AM

Re: I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

Thanks girls!

lilmartha59 Posted: Jul 11, 2009 09:00 AM

Re: I found out my shower is tomo.... help! and clearly can't sleep (4:17 AM???)

when i had my baby shower i found out last min and though the same thing that i wont look surprised...but once i walked in and seen everyone and everything i was shocked and started to cry lol
have fun enjoy your day