I give up....

OK -

I won't find a hair and make up person
i won't get the shoes I want
I won't find the sneakers I want
I won't buy my tracksuit and crystals
I won't find a florist
I will be a big fat heifer from now until the wedding
I won't be productive with anything from now until June...

There - I vented...

and if anyone knows me - I NEVER will say I'm a fat heifer - so I'm venting big time...

I'm done

I'm tired - no more - please - I just want my plans to make themselves at this point!!!!

OH YEAH - gotta order those invitations... that'll never get done too...

nothing will get done... I will just show up to my wedding day with no makeup and my hair in ponytails... Of course, I'll be too fat to fit into my dress, and it won't matter because no one will be there because we never sent out the invites...

Lets not even talk about writing my own vows...





OK - I feel a little better...

National Floral
Madison Salon in Woodbury.

What size sneakers are you? I bought a pair for the wedding and never wore them. Lace - so cute!

we all feel like this sometimes - just take a rest from the planning and tackle one thing at a time. do you use checklists? i find that it helps me prioritize.

feel better!!!

Sorry you are feeling this way...

I think its totally normal...I felt the same exact way...thigs will fall into place.

Hang in there!

Thanks ladies!

Totally normal!!!! Take some time to yourself!!! If its 2 weeks to a month but do it. It gets very stressful. Believe me it will get done. I believe in you! Good luck

Oh boy, I'm right there with ya...I haven't done ANYTHING for about 2 months now. Take a week or so off from planning, this way you get a break then start again with one thing at a time. Hang in there!

If it makes you feel at all better, I am only two weeks away and I am in the same exact boat as you.......
and as far as the big fat heifer...... I just had chicken parm and eggplant rollatini for dinner. I found a piece of cake hidden in the fridge that FH bought at the restaurant that he knows I love and I can't wait for him to bring it the heck out!!!!! Oh yeah.... I'm supposed to weigh in tomorrow at Weight Watchers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel the same way ALL the time and I only have 3 months left. You'll be alright

I feel your pain!!!! but it will work out in the long run...That's what I keep telling myself!

Just take it one step at a time and things will get done.

Everything will come together.

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Posted by johnsae

we all feel like this sometimes - just take a rest from the planning and tackle one thing at a time. do you use checklists? i find that it helps me prioritize.

feel better!!!

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OMG - I am like checklist queen, and I keep seeing those items just GLARING at me every month/week/day!!!

I completely understand!! I feel like I go from aptm to aptm to not find anything that I like (read: waste of a day) and all the ideas and projects that I do have - I can never find any of the materials for them that I need!! UGH - I almost had a melt down this weekend...will this planning every get done?!

yes you will, yes you will!!!
honestly try designs by rose, they are really great and very affordable!
and take a breath, take a week off from planning, youll be ok

I'm stressed already and i have over a year. I can just imagine how you're feeling!!! Take a nice hot bath and have a glass of wine. It helps!!!

No one will even notice your shows so don't stress about that.

There are a ton of florists and salons in NY. Their focus is to make your wedding beautiful.

Even if you don't find the 'perfect' vendors, your wedding will turn out beautiful.

Brighten up! you are getting married!