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I got a new job FINALLY!!!! update question for you ladies

Original post by melcc83

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sooo I got a call back today I got a job at the bank of smithtown in miller place!!!!! I soo exited Im putting in my 2 weeks tommorow.
I wanna thank all the girls that kept giving me advice and positive feedback when i was getting aggravated about not finding a job. Love my LIW girls

xoxo
Melissa

ook so today I gave notice to my manager and he gave me the biggest guilt trip. He was like Im shocked im really suprised wow. I had no idea where are you going what goin on. Hes like diana ( my asst manager) is gonna flip. then hes like I didnt know you wanted a higher postion you should have come to me. FYI Ive had the same position for almost 3 years should he help me with my career growth? I left his office soo upset and soo guilty. I know Im making the right decion still but why did he have to do that.. is this a normal thing for bosses to do I havent had that many jobs so I have no ideaa?? Please give me your input

flairforfashion Thread views: 1,144

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Congrats! That is great news!

littlepixie12 Thread views: 1,144

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YAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!! CONGRATS!! how exciting!

Brila09 Thread views: 1,144

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Awesome! Congrats!

MaggieLuvsJoe Thread views: 1,144

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Congrats!!! Thats so exciting! Good Luck with everything

SalsBRIDE Thread views: 1,144

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Congrats & Good Luck!!!!

iYexie Thread views: 1,144

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YAY
Good Luck

melcc83 Thread views: 1,144

Re: I got a new job FINALLY!!!! update question for you ladies

BUMP

angels914 Thread views: 1,144

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They will always try to make you feel guilty !!!!!! Do what you feel is best for you ! Just means now they have to find someone else to fill your shoes !!!!!!! OH WELL !!!

flairforfashion Thread views: 1,144

Re: I got a new job FINALLY!!!! update question for you ladies

I just read your update. Normally, if they don't give a crap- they don't say anything. He probably was surprised and would have given you a higher offer as opposed to the new job. Did they offer you anything? If they did, could you stay? I mean, if you were unhappy at the old job, don't sweat it and just move on.

melcc83 Thread views: 1,144

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it was weird actually he asked what they offered me and I told him and he didnt offer anything

TaraVinny Thread views: 1,144

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yes some bosses are like that. it's hard to not let it get to you but you got to realize that it is your life and you gotta do whats best for you.

JKFris09 Thread views: 1,144

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FH used to work there, he liked it alot but he was at the Centereach branch. Good luck and screw your boss with the guilt trip he's took late to try to make anything better

Summertimegal424 Thread views: 1,144

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i think that with you being there for 3 years they were kinda hurt, but i wouldn't feel guilty, you need to do what you need to do...dont let ppl stand in your way, and if this new job is gonna bring you more money and more options in life than gooo for it....

melcc83 Thread views: 1,144

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thats good to know thanks for the info

jenniferd Thread views: 1,144

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Posted by melcc83

awwww thanksss... and really thanks for your help...you really helped me stay positive :)... thanks for the g2g toast.....its almost here anddd the night of the g2g will be my last day at work wooo hoooooo

Yay even more to celebrate! I def think all bosses do this stuff. When I left my last job my boss did this to me and was like 'you're doing this to me right before I go on vacation?' Umm yeah, I really could care less about ur vacation. But yeah, they def do this alot. Don't sweat it, ur def making the right decision. What's meant to be will be. You will be so much happier.

melcc83 Thread views: 1,144

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thank you agian for your great advice lolll next time I have a problem the subject should just say attention jenniferd what do I do lolllll

flairforfashion Thread views: 1,144

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Posted by melcc83

it was weird actually he asked what they offered me and I told him and he didnt offer anything

If it was a lot higher than what you were making at your previous job- he probably said F it to save himself the money. You did a good thing leaving I think- you will be better off and much happier. Good luck with the new job!