I guess I am just a non forgiving person
my mom and her brother Michael have not spoken in over a year. A little backgroud: the house my mother lived in her entire house he threw her out. The house was my great grandmothers, she left it to my grandmother (my mom's mom) and because she couldnt handle all the paperwork she made my uncle power of attorney. My grandmother lost her husband and the house she lived in she was thrown out of because that house was in her husbands family for years and when the found out how much it was worth they threw her out and not giving her a dime so my grandmother moved into the house my great grandmother left her. So we had my grandmother on the first floor, my parents and I on the second floor and my uncle in the basement. One big happy family.
Well Sh!t hit the fan and my mother and uncle had a huge argument, so his worst he could do he did, he evicted her. My grandmother did nothing. She didnt get involved. She just kept her mouth shut. my mom countered and took him to court. My parents did move and I moved in with Brian. I told my grandmother when it was my parents last day in the house that the next time I see her is when the mortician is closing the casket and as God is my witness I will be popping a bottle of crystal and doing the irish jig on her grave. I also told her to get a good look at me now because she will never see me again and when I get married its her loss that she wont be at my wedding not mine.
So time marches on. My cousin (this uncles daughter) gets engaged and does NOT invite my parents and I to her e-party. She invted the entire family but us. So I consider her and that family dead to me.
Time proceeds to march on. My dad lost his mother at the beginning of the year and my grandmother felt aweful and called my mother. She even sent a sympathy card.
Today, my mother and father were driving home from shopping and they took the back streets for some reason. Streets probably no one knows exist. On these streets they see a man and his car that is broke down. My dad pulls over to help this person. He and this person work on the car for an hour and it eventually starts up. This man, my uncle. When the car started he gave my mom a huge hug and started crying of how sorry he is and that he loves her and not a day goes by that he doesnt think about her. He told her how is such a jerk and that she is family and he let his need for greed get in between what they have. My uncle is the biggest con man in the world and my mom said this was truely genuine. This was truely from the heart.
She told me how she forgives him and that I shouldnt be so negative towards him.
I told her I am sorry there is nothing in the world that will change my feelings towards him and my grandmother. I wish them both to rot in hell. I told her this man will be around forever because heaven definatly doesnt want him and satans afraid he'll take over. (Kidding me this is the type of man that will sell your soul to satan)
So my mom and I had a little argument that I need to be forgiving and if she can forgive him I should too.
I guess I just cant look pass of what he did to my parents and I can never forgive my grandmother for just sitting there and allowing him to treat my parents with such disrespect.
what do you ladies think....sorry so long...
Well Sh!t hit the fan and my mother and uncle had a huge argument, so his worst he could do he did, he evicted her. My grandmother did nothing. She didnt get involved. She just kept her mouth shut. my mom countered and took him to court. My parents did move and I moved in with Brian. I told my grandmother when it was my parents last day in the house that the next time I see her is when the mortician is closing the casket and as God is my witness I will be popping a bottle of crystal and doing the irish jig on her grave. I also told her to get a good look at me now because she will never see me again and when I get married its her loss that she wont be at my wedding not mine.
So time marches on. My cousin (this uncles daughter) gets engaged and does NOT invite my parents and I to her e-party. She invted the entire family but us. So I consider her and that family dead to me.
Time proceeds to march on. My dad lost his mother at the beginning of the year and my grandmother felt aweful and called my mother. She even sent a sympathy card.
Today, my mother and father were driving home from shopping and they took the back streets for some reason. Streets probably no one knows exist. On these streets they see a man and his car that is broke down. My dad pulls over to help this person. He and this person work on the car for an hour and it eventually starts up. This man, my uncle. When the car started he gave my mom a huge hug and started crying of how sorry he is and that he loves her and not a day goes by that he doesnt think about her. He told her how is such a jerk and that she is family and he let his need for greed get in between what they have. My uncle is the biggest con man in the world and my mom said this was truely genuine. This was truely from the heart.
She told me how she forgives him and that I shouldnt be so negative towards him.
I told her I am sorry there is nothing in the world that will change my feelings towards him and my grandmother. I wish them both to rot in hell. I told her this man will be around forever because heaven definatly doesnt want him and satans afraid he'll take over. (Kidding me this is the type of man that will sell your soul to satan)
So my mom and I had a little argument that I need to be forgiving and if she can forgive him I should too.
I guess I just cant look pass of what he did to my parents and I can never forgive my grandmother for just sitting there and allowing him to treat my parents with such disrespect.
what do you ladies think....sorry so long...
