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i hate bridesmaids dresses...i want to jump out the window.

JBC12510 Posted:

i hate bridesmaids dresses...i want to jump out the window.

One of my bridesmaids is preggers so naturally her dress doesnt fit so they need to order more fabric and make a corset for her so it does fit...So I called Macy's to find out how much $ it would cost to do so...$150 for rush order and labor...without any other alterations included.

OK so your'e telling me its going to cost more to alter it than it did to buy it in the first place????

I really dont think this bridesmaid is going to do it and I'm gonna be down one bridesmaid...

I do NOT know what to do. I have to call her and tell her how much its going to cost!!!! If she says she's not in it anymore I'm seriously gonna jump out the window. I cant take this bridalparty/wedding/dress drama anymore!!!
AngnShaun Posted:

Re: i hate bridesmaids dresses...i want to jump out the window.

well... if shes big enough to need this much of an alteration how come she didnt order it sooner? why wait till it has to be rushed...

JBC12510 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

well... if shes big enough to need this much of an alteration how come she didnt order it sooner? why wait till it has to be rushed...




becuase she's only 2 months pregnant!!!! Who knew she'd even be a different size???

AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by JBC12510


Posted by AngnShaun

well... if shes big enough to need this much of an alteration how come she didnt order it sooner? why wait till it has to be rushed...




becuase she's only 2 months pregnant!!!! Who knew she'd even be a different size???




idk how thats even possible... has she tried letting it out at the size its at now?

that doesnt make any sense that she would need any extra...
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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one of my BMs had a similar problem ... rather than ordering the fabric, she just had the dress converted into a corset top .... it added a lot more room for her and she was comfortable.

obviously this meant the dresses weren't all identical (and she still had to pay for that alteration) but at least it was fine - there are no pics of the BM's backs anyhow
JBC12510 Posted:

Re: i hate bridesmaids dresses...i want to jump out the window.


Posted by AwaitingAugust

one of my BMs had a similar problem ... rather than ordering the fabric, she just had the dress converted into a corset top .... it added a lot more room for her and she was comfortable.

obviously this meant the dresses weren't all identical (and she still had to pay for that alteration) but at least it was fine - there are no pics of the BM's backs anyhow



thats what they want to do for her, but they said they need more fabric to do so, thus the $150 cost.
JBC12510 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by JBC12510


Posted by AngnShaun

well... if shes big enough to need this much of an alteration how come she didnt order it sooner? why wait till it has to be rushed...




becuase she's only 2 months pregnant!!!! Who knew she'd even be a different size???




idk how thats even possible... has she tried letting it out at the size its at now?

that doesnt make any sense that she would need any extra...



idk, aparently her boobs got GIANT and she cant even zip it up to half her back
AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by JBC12510


Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by JBC12510


Posted by AngnShaun

well... if shes big enough to need this much of an alteration how come she didnt order it sooner? why wait till it has to be rushed...




becuase she's only 2 months pregnant!!!! Who knew she'd even be a different size???




idk how thats even possible... has she tried letting it out at the size its at now?

that doesnt make any sense that she would need any extra...



idk, aparently her boobs got GIANT and she cant even zip it up to half her back



ohhhh...i guess you dont have a choice then.
JBC12510 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by JBC12510


Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by JBC12510


Posted by AngnShaun

well... if shes big enough to need this much of an alteration how come she didnt order it sooner? why wait till it has to be rushed...




becuase she's only 2 months pregnant!!!! Who knew she'd even be a different size???




idk how thats even possible... has she tried letting it out at the size its at now?

that doesnt make any sense that she would need any extra...



idk, aparently her boobs got GIANT and she cant even zip it up to half her back



ohhhh...i guess you dont have a choice then.



yeah it sucks, between this and my bachelorette/MOH drama, I was just in my boss's office crying from the stress.
halfbaked Posted:

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For that price she could just buy a new dress! Is there anyway you could just buy an off the rack dress? Maybe from like Totally You in Bellmore or even Macy's. It might not totally match, but it would kill me to have to pay that much money and then still have to do fittings and everything.

JBC12510 Posted:

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Posted by jilliibabii

For that price she could just buy a new dress! Is there anyway you could just buy an off the rack dress? Maybe from like Totally You in Bellmore or even Macy's. It might not totally match, but it would kill me to have to pay that much money and then still have to do fittings and everything.



I think she's just dropping out.
halfbaked Posted:

Re: i hate bridesmaids dresses...i want to jump out the window.


Posted by JBC12510


Posted by jilliibabii

For that price she could just buy a new dress! Is there anyway you could just buy an off the rack dress? Maybe from like Totally You in Bellmore or even Macy's. It might not totally match, but it would kill me to have to pay that much money and then still have to do fittings and everything.



I think she's just dropping out.



Oh man, I'm sorry.
2010BTB Posted:

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One of my BM's just had this problem. Didn't think she was going to pop but did like a month before the wedding. She's 4 months pregnant and had her seamstress add elastic to each side of the dress by the zipper. My BM's dresses actually had a little fabric 'tail' that covered it a bit. Maybe you could do something like that and add a pin????

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