I hate my BP!!!! ( long vent! )

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Oct 14, 2004 09:48 AM

I hate my BP!!!! ( long vent! )

As I am sitting here running around doing things for the wedding it just dawned on me that I am also doing things for my bachelorette party as well.
I booked the limo ( put it on my maxed out cc ) and am sitting here trying to figure out where I am going to get the $$$ for the male strip club so I can book that as well, when I realized that I should not be doing this. My BMs should be doing this or at least helping with this.
Now people are also backing out, saying that they can't afford to do anything, etc. So At this point I will be left to foot this very large bill if I go ahead book everything on my own.
I am so upset and angry all at once. I think I am just going to cancel the limo or change the size and just go and do something by myself that day and say forget everyone else!!!
Thanks for letting me vent girls, I really needed too!!!!!

diamondgrlie Posted: Oct 14, 2004 09:51 AM

Re: I hate my BP!!!! ( long vent! )

I am sorry! Can you talk to your best friend, MOH or one of the girls you are closest to? I am not doing one thing for my own bachelorette party... you shouldnt have to stress about this fun part, you have enough to worry about with all the other wedding plans.

divabride Posted: Oct 14, 2004 09:53 AM

Re: I hate my BP!!!! ( long vent! )

I know this might not be what you want to hear, but I really would cancel the limo. Number one, its not your priority to pay for the limo. If anything, you should be the ONLY one not paying. You all ready have enough to pay for with your own wedding, so dont get stuck paying for your bachelorette party too. If your bridal party doesnt step in and plan something for you, then make reservations where you are not held liable for the cost. Im so sorry you have to go through this!!

randella Posted: Oct 14, 2004 09:58 AM

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I agree.. You should not have to pay for anything.. and you should def talk to your best friend. Why isn't anyone stepping up? Part of the fun of being in a wedding party is planning the bachelorette party-- and there are a lot of fun things you can do, that don't cost an arm and a leg.

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Oct 14, 2004 09:59 AM

Re: I hate my BP!!!! ( long vent! )

Posted by divabride

I know this might not be what you want to hear, but I really would cancel the limo. Number one, its not your priority to pay for the limo. If anything, you should be the ONLY one not paying. You all ready have enough to pay for with your own wedding, so dont get stuck paying for your bachelorette party too. If your bridal party doesnt step in and plan something for you, then make reservations where you are not held liable for the cost. Im so sorry you have to go through this!!

That is exactly what I was thinking last night as I was laying on the couch crying!!
Thank you so much for telling me this because at least now I don't feel stupid for feeling this way.