I HATE MY FSILLLLLLLL VENT

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:01 PM

I HATE MY FSILLLLLLLL VENT

It's so bad that I seriously cannot write ALL of the reasons why she makes my life hell!!! UGH I HATEEEEE HER !!!!!!!!!!!

this will be the official thread haha of our reasons why they suck!!!

pjc92980 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:06 PM

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i want to be part of this thread...but its my FMIL!!!!

Yankeeelove Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:09 PM

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Posted by pjc92980

i want to be part of this thread...but its my FMIL!!!!

Me too!!

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:16 PM

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yea, they suck too, my FMIL sucks because she ALWAYS backs up the FSIL even when she is totally wrong. Once the FSIL called me a POS to my face in front of his parents and they just stood there and said nothing. my FSIL already booked her plastic surgery for lipo and another boob job for MY wedding. AND she booked her own hair and makeup artist for the day of. ***???

Yankeeelove Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:17 PM

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Posted by blondybride

yea, they suck too, my FMIL sucks because she ALWAYS backs up the FSIL even when she is totally wrong. Once the FSIL called me a POS to my face in front of his parents and they just stood there and said nothing. my FSIL already booked her plastic surgery for lipo and another boob job for MY wedding. AND she booked her own hair and makeup artist for the day of. ***???

Whoa sounds like she's looking for serious attention

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:20 PM

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EXACTLY!!!!! she ALWAYS TRIES TO ONE UP ME, nomatter what the event is, she always turns it into being about HER. AT OUR ENGAGEMENT PARTY, (WHICH MY PARENTS PAID FOR) she told one of fh's side's guests that I said I didnt want them to be there bc I didnt want to pay for them to come. (totally made up, and the person likes me and knows i would never do such a thing so they told me she said that) Then when I confronted them, his mother totally stood up for her and was like 'do you honestly think she would have said that ? common now' ughhhhhh

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:22 PM

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when it comes time to pick the dresses, she is going to make my life HELL. only good part is that FH and my family have my back

ourwedding9510 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:33 PM

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Posted by Yankeeelove

Posted by pjc92980

i want to be part of this thread...but its my FMIL!!!!

Me too!!

ME THREE! However, she just drives me a little crazy, not as bad as the wedding crazy.

As for your FSIL, just smile and nod and let it go. If she starts with the dresses, tell her 'then you can make me wear whatever you want when it's your turn'. I had my SIL tell me I couldn't plan our wedding until after her wedding was over (5 months after we got engaged). It was RIDICULOUS and she took the exciting part away from me because by the time her wedding was over and we could get excited for mine, 2 of my friends got engaged and mine was old news.

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:39 PM

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that is a good idea, only the reason why she hates me so much is because she is totally jealous of me. She just had a baby 1 year ago with a loser who is now in jail. She is such a horrible mean person that she will prob never find someone to be with unless they enjoy being treated like garbage. she is seriously the most evil spiteful person you would ever meet. So as much as I would like so say ' you can make me wear whatever you want for yours' she A) prolly wont get married and B) definitely wouldnt put me in her BP. Even though I HAVE to put her in mine bc if i dont then IM the bad guy

*by the way this may seem harsh saying she will never find someone, but she seriously has been told that before by every guy that leaves her, bc they cant handle her nastiness.

Watermelon5 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 12:58 PM

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Luckily i am not dealing w/ this but these ppl sound caaa-raazyyy!

Tricia1230 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 01:40 PM

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My FSIL is always picking fights with me as well and of course my FMIL defends her and actually told me I have to have respect for her. She told me I'm the reason she can never spend time with her brother and that I stole him. I have never been anything but nice to this girl. I helped her move her stuff from her dorm room several times because she needed to use my Jeep. She is a very jealous and lonely person because she is just a ***** to everyone for no reason. I have tried many times to avoid fights with her but she makes up stories and tells lies to my FMIL about me. When my FH and I moved in together she wrote him text messages saying that now she has nobody. Well maybe if you were nicer you would have friends and not have to cling to your brother. My FH has actually finally started to see where im comin from and actually told her she needs to watch her attitude. She actually knew better than to ask to be a bridesmaid so instead she asked my FH if she could wear a tux and walk down on his side I dont think so!!

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 01:43 PM

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Tricia I think we are talking about the same exact FSIL are you sure we arent related somehow hahahahaha

Tricia1230 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 01:46 PM

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LOL!!!! its so ridiculous like why cant you just let other people be happy or go buy yourself a friend LOL 25 years old and she has never had a date!!! Gee I wonder why

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 01:51 PM

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OMG I KNOW, she also tells everyone that I stole FH away from her. I have tried to take her to Atlantic city for her Bday, paid for all drinks and room, bought her a massage as a bday gift, evr since day 1 I have always tried to be her friend and she always shoots me down. Fh's mom always pushed for me to keep trying to be her friend, but now I have had it. Once the wedding comes FH and I are planning on moving to Florida and after that well never have to see her

*and his parents also use it as an excuse that the reason she is bitchy is because she is jealous of me, (yes, they have admitted that) and because she has no friends, THE REASON SHE HAS NO FRIENDS IS BC SHE IS AN UNAPPRECIATIVE B*TCH

Tricia1230 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 01:57 PM

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Omg yeah I used to bring this little brat muffins and cakes that I made from scratch to be nice and she used to ask me to make some sauce cuz she likes italian food and I would. I actually made her birthday cupcakes and drove them all the way out to her school which is over an hour away. I've kept my mouth shut for 5 years and lets just say im half hispanic half italian so Im not quiet chic lol Ive just had it with her and for once the last fight I cursed her out and she had nothing to say but 'ok'. I have 3 brothers and I would never do that to any of their girlfriends or wives. If you see your brother loves someone and is going to be with them you respect that. You cant get respect if you dont give it.

blondybride Posted: Mar 31, 2011 01:58 PM

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AMEN

FutureMrsGibson Posted: Mar 31, 2011 03:31 PM

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LADIES! Be careful! Anyone can read the posts on this site!!! I have heard horror stories of weddings be CANCELLED because of people talking about future moms, dads, sisters etc!!!!

Tricia1230 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 04:43 PM

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Im safe my FMIL doesnt speak english and if FSIL actually did find this my FH already knows how i feel and wouldnt care. I think hed be happy i found some place to vent rather than complaining to him about it over n over again LOL

kdm822 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 04:47 PM

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Posted by blondybride

when it comes time to pick the dresses, she is going to make my life HELL. only good part is that FH and my family have my back

Make her wear something HORRIBLEEEE... its either your choice or sit out .. tough **** .. your wedding your rules