I hate STD's

Tori9299 Posted: May 01, 2008 07:27 PM

I hate STD's

I sent mine out at the one year mark and WISH I NEVER SENT THEM. After going over the guest list to cut back NOW my dad is like why are you inviting certain members of the family? I was like I thought I had to and my mom told me to. (And yes we all live in the same house, I left the family list up to my mom) So now what????
If I sent a STD I have to send an invite right? I really want to cut back some how.

Some advice save the money don't do them. I love the way they look and mine are so cute, but now this guest list is nuts.

CNC4eva3402 Posted: May 01, 2008 07:29 PM

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You'll def need to explain yourself to the people who received a STD and are waiting around for the formal invite, and don't recieve one...

I'm sorry I don't have any real advice, hopefully you can figure something out!

coley1027 Posted: May 01, 2008 07:35 PM

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in my opinion if i recieved a STD i would expect to be sent a formal invitation, and if i didnt recieve one i might be upset.

BUT if the people who you are looking to cut back on arent really close to you, and you dont really plan on seeing much after the wedding then, hey dont invite them and save yourself the money! in the end it comes down whether you think its going to cause problems or not, and if youd even care if it did cause problems.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: May 01, 2008 07:38 PM

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You always hear about how like 20% of the people you invite wont come so you never know... you might be happy you sent them in the end.

Tori9299 Posted: May 01, 2008 07:45 PM

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Yeah, (pouting like a baby) LOL. I know I have to send a invite and I will. I just wish I didn't have to.

VickiR510 Posted: May 01, 2008 07:59 PM

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I think if you sent a STD to them, then i believe thats whatthey are doing. Saving teh date for your affair. So unfortunately i think your stuck with the list you have. But at least 15% say no. So keep your fingers crossed! lol

CNC4eva3402 Posted: May 01, 2008 08:33 PM

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Posted by Tori9299

Yeah, (pouting like a baby) LOL. I know I have to send a invite and I will. I just wish I didn't have to.

Aww ... dont worry!! Write something ridiculous on their invites like 'Must pay $200 at the door' and they will all reply no

I'll keep my fingers crossed that they reply with a 'no' for you!!

JJC Posted: May 01, 2008 08:48 PM

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I think ya kind of should invite them now...and for future save the daters...I just sent a few stds...to close friends and family...no maybes....its hard to do but worth it