I have 4 weeks and 1 day to go and I can't keep another thought in my head!!

litlone555 Posted: May 09, 2005 10:57 PM

I have 4 weeks and 1 day to go and I can't keep another thought in my head!!

I have so much running through my mind, I have a new job thats longer hours, I have parents, FG and RB gifts to get, people from out of town who dont have hotels yet, my reader in the church ceremony never even showed up to my shower, the last day to respond is tomorrow and I have a list of people to call (so rude by the way) and worst of ALLLLLL I have a seating chart to do!!!!

I don't even know how I am going to get it all done. Please tell me that you guy are freaking out toooo! I'm not alone and it will all get done!

PS If one more person asks if Im getting nervous or excited I think I might choke them! Of course I'm nervous and its my wedding day of course I'm excited!!!! I know they mean well but all they really do is remind me of how much stuff I still have left to do!

(edited for spelling)

litlone555 Posted: May 09, 2005 11:17 PM

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I hope you guy are taking me too seriously. I wouldn't really choke someone its just a lit'l bit of sarcasm. I jut needed to vent a little. Maybe the you guys aren't at that point yet or maybe I am exagerating.

hmpena Posted: May 09, 2005 11:21 PM

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Good luck with everything! In the end it will all get done and your wedding will be beautiful! I hope you have smooth sailing from this point on.

litlone555 Posted: May 09, 2005 11:25 PM

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Thank You, I just need some comforting from some people who were, are or will be in the same situation.

VogueBride Posted: May 09, 2005 11:27 PM

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you WILL get EVERYTHING done....keep saying that to yourself....AND it will be wonderful!

hmpena Posted: May 09, 2005 11:28 PM

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Any time! I am not quite there yet, but I can understand some of what you are going through! I hope you have people that can help you out so that you don't have to do everything yourself. Again, good luck. Just think of the HM!

leeleelee Posted: May 09, 2005 11:30 PM

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Don't worry - I have less than 4 weeks to go and even though I got so much done early on, there are still those little details that seem like they'll never get done - it definitely puts the pressure on. They will all get done though - don't worry. :) Just breathe and do one thing at a time!

maybride03 Posted: May 09, 2005 11:52 PM

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Hey, leeleelee, you're getting married the weekend after me at Raphael!

Don't worry litlone555! I felt the same way about two weeks ago, but now that it's getting closer, things are getting more done and pretty soon it will be your wedding day. It'll all work out, and even if it's not perfect, you'll still have a wonderful day!!

litlone555 Posted: May 09, 2005 11:56 PM

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OMG 5/28/05! You are so close, not that I am far away but you are really alomost there. I hope I feel the same way when Im that close. Good luck and thatnks for the reassurance, I needed it.

maybride03 Posted: May 09, 2005 11:58 PM

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Thanks! That's what we're here for, to reassure each other. Feel free to FM me if you want to vent some more.

jersee3380 Posted: May 10, 2005 02:53 PM

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i know how u feel ... i'm getting close and am sooo scared ... between still looking for a florist and photo/video guy ... figuring out how to pay for it ... and all the little details .... i dont sleep and it makes me even more cranky!!!

maybe fh was right ... eloping IS the way to go

mikeysgirl Posted: May 10, 2005 06:47 PM

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Hugs and Kisses Kathy

I went through it too. If that makes you feel any better

If you need a pal to go shopping with for gifts call me, I'll be there in a minute. If you need any ideas call me.

Table Chart: Buy index cards, put each persons name or each couple on one card and make piles. Before you know it you will have piles of tables. WE don't care if you put us in the kitchen. haha

The people who have not yet responded: I made little sheets of paper off the computer and mailed them to the people who did not respond in a timely matter, before I knew it they were all in.

'We have not yet received your response to our wedding yet. Please respond as soon as possible so we can finish the planning of our big day!

Love, Heather and Michael'

It was a little up front, but an easier solution than having to call everyone.

P.S. if you need me to look into hotels while I am at work one day, let me know.

It will all be over soon and you are going to have the best day of your life.