I have a guy on my side - any suggestions for pictures, gifts, anything!!?

Kinda sorta similar situation, but not really. I wanted to include my 20 y/o brother and 26 y/o cousin in my wedding, so I made them Ushers - wearing the same tuxes as the guys (maybe different color) and riding in the limos with the BP.

What I'm getting them (all or some)
- shaving kit from 'The Art of Shaving' - (brother) he's hardcore into the 'older' technique of shaving (freaking weird to me but whatever) so they have these gorgeous sets at that store.
- a mini ipod b/c both really wants one (can't understand how they don't have one yet)
- paying for a 6 month gym membership (both)
- Cousin rides a bike, so I'm going to look into customized helmets
- my brother shops at BR so probably throwing in a gift certificate
- both are getting metrocards...corny, but i think they're useful!

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Posted by ChristineAE

Kinda sorta similar situation, but not really. I wanted to include my 20 y/o brother and 26 y/o cousin in my wedding, so I made them Ushers - wearing the same tuxes as the guys (maybe different color) and riding in the limos with the BP.

What I'm getting them (all or some)
- shaving kit from 'The Art of Shaving' - (brother) he's hardcore into the 'older' technique of shaving (freaking weird to me but whatever) so they have these gorgeous sets at that store.
- a mini ipod b/c both really wants one (can't understand how they don't have one yet)
- paying for a 6 month gym membership (both)
- Cousin rides a bike, so I'm going to look into customized helmets
- my brother shops at BR so probably throwing in a gift certificate
- both are getting metrocards...corny, but i think they're useful!

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wow! those are some amazing gifts for 'ushers'!! what are you getting the bridal party? I need to step it up in the gift department...

My guy cousin who I am close with is in the bridal party. He's a groomsman. Two of FH's cousins are my bridesmaids. We totally just mixed sides. But, the people we mixed were family, and close to the both of us. Is your friend also a friend of your FH's? In that case, I think it would be fine for him to stand with the groomsmen.

Sorry, no gift ideas. I haven't done that part yet.

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

My guy cousin who I am close with is in the bridal party. He's a groomsman. Two of FH's cousins are my bridesmaids. We totally just mixed sides. But, the people we mixed were family, and close to the both of us. Is your friend also a friend of your FH's? In that case, I think it would be fine for him to stand with the groomsmen.

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FH and my friend get along, but it is really important to me that he stands on my side....

I had seven attendants on my side of the bridal party, and three of them were 'bridesmen.' If he's close to you, there's no reason he shouldn't stand by your side on your day. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

I'll scan in some pics for you, but in the meantime, I'll tell you what I did for gifts. I got them leather bags with their names on them (embossed, I guess, I don't know the right term for engraving in leather....) from Men's Warehouse and Coach money clips.
We had other male friends singing and reading during the ceremony, and we gave them engraved flasks (also from Men's Warehouse).

I'll try and post pics as soon as I can.

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Posted by charityhope

I had seven attendants on my side of the bridal party, and three of them were 'bridesmen.' If he's close to you, there's no reason he shouldn't stand by your side on your day. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

I'll scan in some pics for you, but in the meantime, I'll tell you what I did for gifts. I got them leather bags with their names on them (embossed, I guess, I don't know the right term for engraving in leather....) from Men's Warehouse and Coach money clips.
We had other male friends singing and reading during the ceremony, and we gave them engraved flasks (also from Men's Warehouse).

I'll try and post pics as soon as I can.

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great! thank you so much :)

at $200 - the new Ipod Nano is pretty cool

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Posted by itslaurie.

at $200 - the new Ipod Nano is pretty cool

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Where did u see that for 200 bucks?

TIA

how old is he?

fhs friends like:

good burbon like bookers
cigars
humidor
mortons/rothmanns/lugers gift certificate
thomas pink Tie and cuff links
mont blanc cuff links
netflix subscription



eta- i didnt read the gay part
out of my list he probably wont like many of my suggestions

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by itslaurie.

at $200 - the new Ipod Nano is pretty cool

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Where did u see that for 200 bucks?

TIA

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the 2 gig (500 songs) is $200

http://store.apple.com/1-800-MY-APPLE/WebObjects/AppleStore?family=iPodx

etsa: free shipping and laser engraving.

the new ipod is a great idea - I know he is dying for one, but he may buy it for himself or get it as a gift before my wedding

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Posted by Preshy7

how old is he?

fhs friends like:

good burbon like bookers
cigars
humidor
mortons/rothmanns/lugers gift certificate
thomas pink Tie and cuff links
mont blanc cuff links
netflix subscription



eta- i didnt read the gay part
out of my list he probably wont like many of my suggestions

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yeah, thanks for the suggestions, but he is more of a 'punk' kind of guy...so he isn't really into fashion or humidors, etc....

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Posted by johnsae


yeah, thanks for the suggestions, but he is more of a 'punk' kind of guy...so he isn't really into fashion or humidors, etc....

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Oh, punk...that's right up my alley! So if you go on ebay, you might be able to find some nice memorabilia from the Ramones, or another classic punk band. I'm having a mind block for other classic bands. FM me if you want more and I'll ask my FH. He got me into it.

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

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Posted by johnsae


yeah, thanks for the suggestions, but he is more of a 'punk' kind of guy...so he isn't really into fashion or humidors, etc....

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Oh, punk...that's right up my alley! So if you go on ebay, you might be able to find some nice memorabilia from the Ramones, or another classic punk band. I'm having a mind block for other classic bands. FM me if you want more and I'll ask my FH. He got me into it.

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oh my gosh, you just gave me the best idea...I am not so sure about the kind of music he likes, but we do have lots of inside jokes about 80's tv shows, 80's movies, etc...I'm going to go on ebay and see if there is anything totally random that I can get him. Thanks again for the ebay idea :)

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Posted by johnsae

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

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Posted by johnsae


yeah, thanks for the suggestions, but he is more of a 'punk' kind of guy...so he isn't really into fashion or humidors, etc....

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Oh, punk...that's right up my alley! So if you go on ebay, you might be able to find some nice memorabilia from the Ramones, or another classic punk band. I'm having a mind block for other classic bands. FM me if you want more and I'll ask my FH. He got me into it.

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oh my gosh, you just gave me the best idea...I am not so sure about the kind of music he likes, but we do have lots of inside jokes about 80's tv shows, 80's movies, etc...I'm going to go on ebay and see if there is anything totally random that I can get him. Thanks again for the ebay idea :)

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No problem! I love Ebay for those unique gifts that are hard to find elsewhere. It can be so personal that way!