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I Love my bear Posted:

I have a problem

So I have 5 BM's in my party and 2/5 love the long dress (jim hjelm posted here) and 2/5 like the short dress Vera wang maids (bubble dress) And the Vera Wang (I can't get a pic here but the link is: http://www.verawang.com/maids/) its the short cocktail dress that has a black band is actually cheaper than the Jim Hjelm long one. But regardless of the cost factor b/c my BM's don't seem to care. I have to make a decision on the dress. I can't figure which one to pick. The color will be the same in both dresses - Eggplant (purple) pls help!
bemyyoko Posted:

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there's only one pic.

wo0shply Posted:

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Only one pic but that dress is beautiful!

winter wed Posted:

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THis long dress is gorgeous. Did the 2 that dont want it try it on? I dont ususally like myself in long gowns but tried on my own BMs dress and loved it. I havent seen the other choice.

I Love my bear Posted:

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It's soo weird the older girls love the short dress and the younger girls *they are in highschool age* like the longer , elegant dress??! what gives?

bluegreen08 Posted:

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maybe the younger girls want to wear it to prom, and the older girls want to wear it to cocktail parties? haha

edit: my cousin will be 17 at the time of my wedding, and wants to re-wear her BM dress to her prom
I Love my bear Posted:

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I have one more to go but I know she's going to love the shorter one. Why am I (at this point especially) making this difficult for myself!??

I Love my bear Posted:

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Posted by bluegreen08

maybe the younger girls want to wear it to prom, and the older girls want to wear it to cocktail parties? haha

edit: my cousin will be 17 at the time of my wedding, and wants to re-wear her BM dress to her prom

Actually I think that exactly what their plan is b/c FMIL already asked me if I was up for shopping for the prom this weekend...??!!
Soon2beAlberti Posted:

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well i'd love to see the other dress but u don't think you could just stagger/alternate it to be

bm long, bm short, bm long, bm short, bm long in the processional and standing on the altar?

nowadays it doesn't have to be the same dress and this is one way that everyone could be happy (assuming it would work for you of course)
bluegreen08 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2beAlberti

well i'd love to see the other dress but u don't think you could just stagger/alternate it to be

bm long, bm short, bm long, bm short, bm long in the processional and standing on the altar?

nowadays it doesn't have to be the same dress and this is one way that everyone could be happy (assuming it would work for you of course)



i like that idea! especially if the younger BMs are wearing one dress and the older another.

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