I have been going threw a lot the last few months with my teeth and I have been so upset that I have been going threw this. I feel like it is never going to end. I just had two surgeries at once last Saturday and I am still in pain. I am having problems eating and it making me not want to eat. I feel bad I am putting my parents threw this, my fh, and my sister. A lot of things have been happening to me and I am so stressed and upset about everything that has been going on with me. Going threw all this has got me second guessing everything about my life and the future. I have no idea how to make this feeling and think stop. I do love my fh don't get me wrong.
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I hate to say did you try some pills ... but they help.. everyone goes through that feeling myself included and the only thing that ended up helping me was some xanax and intense physical activity going ot the gym, pialtes, yoga etc
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i would take a step back from the situation and have a you and the girls type of day - mani/pedi's - maybe a massage - something to take your mind off the pain - go for a walk - enjoy the sunshine - and you know we are here for you
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I am never like this. This only stared when I started having surgery on my teeth. I am usually a very happy and fun person to be around. I have just been going threw a lot with my teeth and putting everyone threw it so I feel bad. I have been on pills after pills for this infection and it won't go away. I am a lot of pain and it is drving me crazy that this isn't stoping. I am not a depressed person or anything before this all happened I was happy. Yea my fh has been great threw all of this and so has myy parents and sister. I wish I wasn't putting them threw this. I even changed denists to see if I can get someone better to help and I am still going threw this. I just want to wake up feeling great.
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MY FH IS SIMILAR WHEN IT COMES TO ME BEING IN PAIN .. .it took years but we both learned that we handle those situations differently.... he feels like he cant help so he gets frustrated and then in turns acts nasty. remember some men feel if they cant fix the problem they feel inadequate thus making some of them sound nasty. If I were you I would write down all these feelings and maybe send him an email when you are not going to be with him for a few hours so he can go through the letter on his own time not in a high emotional area such as you crying etc...
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what is going on with your teeth?... maybe someone else has had the same problem and can recommend a dentist that can help.
2009wedding
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I have had three apico's in the last three weeks. It is when a root canal fails the dentist sends you to a surgroen and they go threw your gums and takes out the nerves that way and stitches you back up. You swell and you hurt for a while.
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Its probably because of teh surgeries. When things happen in life I alsways start second guessing myself. Try to be strong and don't do anything you'll regret now. Wait until your teeth are doing better and see how you feel if you still feel the same way talk to someone and try to see if there is something else behind what your feeling.
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sometimes when u take pain meds it plays with you mind... are u taking any?
2009wedding
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Yea 3 different kinds for this pain. I only take it if I really have to. I really hate taking them.
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Yea 3 different kinds for this pain. I only take it if I really have to. I really hate taking them.
pain medicine is mind altering... it gets u cranky and not urself.... try just taking 4 advil when you are in pain no prescripation pain killers... see how that works
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I have had three apico's in the last three weeks. It is when a root canal fails the dentist sends you to a surgroen and they go threw your gums and takes out the nerves that way and stitches you back up. You swell and you hurt for a while.
omg i had smth like that..i had a infection that went in the bone..bcoz of my tooth, they took out two wisdom opened up my gum..blah blah blah... stiched it up .i was in sooo much pain!!!!!!!!!
DO not take any pills!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are already on so many pain killers and antibiotics (those things can really srew up you r stomach) you dont need anything else...right now the best thing for you to do is to relax as much as possible...and just be thankfull that your parents and ur FH is by your side!!!!!!!!!!
think of all that bad stuff this way...smth bad happend (in the past) now u are recovering..and soon u Will get better!!!!!! life is like a ZEBRA..there are black stripes and white ones too...you went through the phase of black stripe and now the white one is coming!!!!!! Think positive..start doing smth, read a book that you always wanted to read and u never had time, look for things for the wedding, just think of it as relaxation and recovery time for ur body!!!!!!! DOnt feel bad for your self...there are worst things that happen to people, and you are lucky enough to have close family next to you and care about you so much! You are a lucky girl coz u have your FH next to you caring about you in the times of sickness! So just enjoy this and be happy!!! You will get better .....and might as well just enjoy the time home ..while you can....( forget about the pain....))!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and remember we are all here..so u always have someone to talk to!!!
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Posted by aliska21
Posted by 2009wedding
I have had three apico's in the last three weeks. It is when a root canal fails the dentist sends you to a surgroen and they go threw your gums and takes out the nerves that way and stitches you back up. You swell and you hurt for a while.
omg i had smth like that..i had a infection that went in the bone..bcoz of my tooth, they took out two wisdom opened up my gum..blah blah blah... stiched it up .i was in sooo much pain!!!!!!!!!
DO not take any pills!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are already on so many pain killers and antibiotics (those things can really srew up you r stomach) you dont need anything else...right now the best thing for you to do is to relax as much as possible...and just be thankfull that your parents and ur FH is by your side!!!!!!!!!!
think of all that bad stuff this way...smth bad happend (in the past) now u are recovering..and soon u Will get better!!!!!! life is like a ZEBRA..there are black stripes and white ones too...you went through the phase of black stripe and now the white one is coming!!!!!! Think positive..start doing smth, read a book that you always wanted to read and u never had time, look for things for the wedding, just think of it as relaxation and recovery time for ur body!!!!!!! DOnt feel bad for your self...there are worst things that happen to people, and you are lucky enough to have close family next to you and care about you so much! You are a lucky girl coz u have your FH next to you caring about you in the times of sickness! So just enjoy this and be happy!!! You will get better .....and might as well just enjoy the time home ..while you can....( forget about the pain....))!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and remember we are all here..so u always have someone to talk to!!!
Aliska, you said it so well.
Hugs to you girl. You will be fine. Stop taking the meds- sleep it off and you will feel as good as new soon. You can't let this bring you down. Just use this time to rest and feel better.
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Posted by 2009wedding
I have had three apico's in the last three weeks. It is when a root canal fails the dentist sends you to a surgroen and they go threw your gums and takes out the nerves that way and stitches you back up. You swell and you hurt for a while.
omg i had smth like that..i had a infection that went in the bone..bcoz of my tooth, they took out two wisdom opened up my gum..blah blah blah... stiched it up .i was in sooo much pain!!!!!!!!!
DO not take any pills!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are already on so many pain killers and antibiotics (those things can really srew up you r stomach) you dont need anything else...right now the best thing for you to do is to relax as much as possible...and just be thankfull that your parents and ur FH is by your side!!!!!!!!!!
think of all that bad stuff this way...smth bad happend (in the past) now u are recovering..and soon u Will get better!!!!!! life is like a ZEBRA..there are black stripes and white ones too...you went through the phase of black stripe and now the white one is coming!!!!!! Think positive..start doing smth, read a book that you always wanted to read and u never had time, look for things for the wedding, just think of it as relaxation and recovery time for ur body!!!!!!! DOnt feel bad for your self...there are worst things that happen to people, and you are lucky enough to have close family next to you and care about you so much! You are a lucky girl coz u have your FH next to you caring about you in the times of sickness! So just enjoy this and be happy!!! You will get better .....and might as well just enjoy the time home ..while you can....( forget about the pain....))!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and remember we are all here..so u always have someone to talk to!!!
Aliska, you said it so well.
Hugs to you girl. You will be fine. Stop taking the meds- sleep it off and you will feel as good as new soon. You can't let this bring you down. Just use this time to rest and feel better.
YEP!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!! like my grandma (in russia) used to say it will get better before the wedding..hahahha ( stupid saying but its true)
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i agree with aliska21. just stay positive as much as possible. i had a health scare a couple of years ago and i completly went into a period of depression where all i did was cry and sleep. i shut everyone out and it was the worst thing i ever did. i know sometimes you cant help but feel low but remeber to pull yourself out before its too late.
