I'm sick and tired of everyone making this wedding about them! I won't go into details but family has hurt my ffeelings and I just can;t take this anymore! I'm losing my mind! I cannot wait till i get out of that house!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love them till death but im so done with everyone's overbearing ways!
that's it...im just sitting at work crying
Im tired of my incompetent bridal party. im tired of my fmil driving fh insane as well, im tired of her using her daughter (sil) as a reference point for everything! lets face it, ITS NOT GOING TO BE LIKE HERS! she had a lovely wedding but mine is not like hers and not everything i have will be like hers. im tired of the meddling, im tired im just tired....i have been the nicest, non bridezilla type but everyone has stepped on me for the last time! I can't guys.
KrisBren2011
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OMG girl.....I'm in the sameeeeee boat!!!!!!! FM me if you need to talk!
JACKIELUVSBRIAN
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I feel your pain! Dont worry, you're not the only one...
InLuvWithMyBF
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thanks guys.
FutureGaudino
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I am going through the same thing. Everyone keeps telling my parents it's there day, and it's MY day. Everyone has a say in everything but no one is helping pay with it. I complete understand!
InLuvWithMyBF
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I am going through the same thing. Everyone keeps telling my parents it's there day, and it's MY day. Everyone has a say in everything but no one is helping pay with it. I complete understand!
same heree!!!
LoveyDovey
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im def in the same boat!
if youre friends with me on fb you would have seen my fb post!
remember what the day is about and screw everyone else!
dunnkat
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I understand how you feel completely! I burst into tears too regurely these days I hope it gets better for you, my friend said something to me this weekend that kind of made sense, she said the wedding reception is for everyone else the honeymoon is for you guys, all the planning and it will go by in the blink of an eye. I think she's right ,I just keep looking forward to that honeymoon!!
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I totally understand how you feel. I am also in the same boat. Two of my brothers are not going to my wedding because they want to be melodramatic. So, I am stressed out about that. With that said, my bridal party is fighting with each other, and the girls are being disrespectful to each other. So, don't feel so bad. I guess it's just part of the event, going through drama.
Hang in there.
VCanizalez
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I am so sorry chica.....
I feel u....
JUST DO WAT U WANT...
FK EVERYONE ELSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
InLuvWithMyBF
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I am so sorry chica.....
I feel u....
JUST DO WAT U WANT...
FK EVERYONE ELSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
you're so right! I need to get that attitude!
this whole thing is emotionally draining!
adelz
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Best advice I can give you is to literally f*ck everyone else and what they want. I know that sounds harsh, but when it's all done (the wedding), the only thing that will matter is that you guys are now married. It won't matter if you changed your flowers because someone said it, or if you invited this person or another person because someone told you. It will matter that you guys vowed to eachother forever. Just keep reminding yourself that.
We didn't listen to anyone about anything for the wedding. If anyone ever tried to say anything - I gave them a very simple response...'Our wedding, our money.' And that was that. We did everything as we chose and couldn't have had it any other way.
The stress is really not worth it ruining this experience for you. Just tell people to back off and stand by your fiance, and let everyone see that it's all about you.
Everything will be beautiful, I promise! The day is magical no matter who else is there or what's there. It's just you two.
Hang in there - and if you need someone to talk to, let me know
VCanizalez
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Posted by VCanizalez
I am so sorry chica.....
I feel u....
JUST DO WAT U WANT...
FK EVERYONE ELSEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
you're so right! I need to get that attitude!
this whole thing is emotionally draining!
YES DO IT
MY FMIL gives me TONS of CRAP... I do get mad but minutes later i snapped out of it and realized IT IS MY FKING DAY NOT HERS.....
IF X n X are giving me crap OH FKIN WELL I DONT CARE NOW.....
DONT LE TTHEM BOTHER U
Everyones different n u know da.....
DO WHAT U WANT AND BE HAPPY WITH WHAT U HAVE =-)
InLuvWithMyBF
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Posted by adelz
Best advice I can give you is to literally f*ck everyone else and what they want. I know that sounds harsh, but when it's all done (the wedding), the only thing that will matter is that you guys are now married. It won't matter if you changed your flowers because someone said it, or if you invited this person or another person because someone told you. It will matter that you guys vowed to eachother forever. Just keep reminding yourself that.
We didn't listen to anyone about anything for the wedding. If anyone ever tried to say anything - I gave them a very simple response...'Our wedding, our money.' And that was that. We did everything as we chose and couldn't have had it any other way.
The stress is really not worth it ruining this experience for you. Just tell people to back off and stand by your fiance, and let everyone see that it's all about you.
Everything will be beautiful, I promise! The day is magical no matter who else is there or what's there. It's just you two.
Hang in there - and if you need someone to talk to, let me know
thank you so much. yes ur right. thats what drives insane the most. we are paying for eveything and its getting so hard...and everyone has something to say!!
I won't even get into my parents...im just hurt. they truly have hurt my feelings
adelz
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Posted by adelz
Best advice I can give you is to literally f*ck everyone else and what they want. I know that sounds harsh, but when it's all done (the wedding), the only thing that will matter is that you guys are now married. It won't matter if you changed your flowers because someone said it, or if you invited this person or another person because someone told you. It will matter that you guys vowed to eachother forever. Just keep reminding yourself that.
We didn't listen to anyone about anything for the wedding. If anyone ever tried to say anything - I gave them a very simple response...'Our wedding, our money.' And that was that. We did everything as we chose and couldn't have had it any other way.
The stress is really not worth it ruining this experience for you. Just tell people to back off and stand by your fiance, and let everyone see that it's all about you.
Everything will be beautiful, I promise! The day is magical no matter who else is there or what's there. It's just you two.
Hang in there - and if you need someone to talk to, let me know
thank you so much. yes ur right. thats what drives insane the most. we are paying for eveything and its getting so hard...and everyone has something to say!!
I won't even get into my parents...im just hurt. they truly have hurt my feelings
I know - the hardest is when people closest to you have something to say. But I say since you're paying for the whole thing tell them simply...our wedding, our money, have a nice day.
