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marinai7 Posted:

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online FOCCUS questionnaire. Wow, they ask you a lot of questions. The questions are pretty easy though b/c I feel like FH and I have talked about everything they brought up. Can't wait to see what we will discuss when we meet with the church.

Did anyone else do FOCCUS and actually want to go to church to see what you would discuss? Don't know why I am actually looking forward to this, but I am.
SummerBride10 Posted:

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i didnt do mine online...we did it at the church then discussed it at the church. omg i did not want to talk about it. i felt like the lady was so pushy and trying to butt into our lives. i wanted nothing to do with that test.
Clover23 Posted:

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YES!!! We were both so excited to see our 'results' hahaha

marinai7 Posted:

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Posted by SummerBride10

i didnt do mine online...we did it at the church then discussed it at the church. omg i did not want to talk about it. i felt like the lady was so pushy and trying to butt into our lives. i wanted nothing to do with that test.



Aww, sorry you had a bad experience. Now you're making me nervous, hopefully they aren't like that with us.
Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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we did them at the church, we didn't want to, but actually had a good time taking the 'test', then we dreaded the results even though we talked about EVERYTHING. The priest asked us not to share our 'score' because we did REALLY REALLY well.
but honestly, I think it depends on how long you've been together and how much you communicate, when we took the test we were a month shy of 5 years, when we got the results back it was a few days before or after our 5 year anniversary, and we'd been engaged a year.. so obv we've talked about everything.

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