I just need some hugs..

awww sweetie huggies for you

Whoa, sounds like there's a lot going on. When I was in middle school (too many years ago to count) I was reminded that even good events have stress. I know that this is a little bit of a rough time, but take a breath and think about all the good things going on. Remind yourself that the things stressing you out are a few individual things, rather than one pile of stress (as it can be overwhelming when you think of them all together). Take a moment to allow that faith in yourself and your fw sink in- remember when you guys agreed to get married? he's still the same guy who believes in your relationship and will do what he can to provide for your union. And take some time to clear your head, be it with a friend in person who can get a drink with you, or riding around the block singing (that works for me too, although it's usually something depressing like 'heart of gold' by Neil Young).

sorry to hear you're down. We all go through it, and everyone's here for ya.

hth

--the stealth groom

Awww! Change is always hard to deal with and itll pass....im sorry youre feeling this way but you have alot on your plate right now...i hope you feel better

I am so sorry...In the end some how it all pulls through. Keep your spirits up..

Keppy ur chin up hunny.. thing have a way of just working themselves out!

Everything happens for a reason.....things will work themselves out

Hnag in there sweetie!! It will all work out! Change is good!

Maybe do some yoga, meditation - you need to relax - take care of yourself! One step at a time, one day at a time. Try to live in the moment as much as you can. It will all work out.

Take a deep breath and try to relax because just when you think everything is miserable something will happen and it is all okay again.

Hang in there, things have a way of working themselves out for the better!

So sorry you are going through a difficult time. Here is a nice corney line for you. It's always darkest before the dawn. Your wedding is the dawn of a new day and a new life for you and your fh. Remember that with the new light come new hope. Everything will work out you just need to believe that is will. You have your new job and everyday will get easier with that. Fh will find a job it just may take time. You just need to lean on eachother till things start looking up.

Everything is going to work out just fine for You & FH, don't make yourself sick over this. FM anytime you need to talk.

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. You are already strong, so you will get through the rough times

oh, I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. It sounds like despite the fact that this is a very happy time, you are under a lot of stresses.......such is life....it can be really stressful.
I can relate to you about the worrying part....for sure. I think what you are feeling is really normal....getting married, a job loss, a new job, all this stuff is really stressful and would definitely have anyone worrying about the future.
Just remember that what you are feeling/going through is normal and eventually FH will have a new job, you will get into the groove at your new job, and this will pass. In the meantime I can send you some of these

I am right there with you girl but it all comes together, no one said planning a wedding was fun...I find it just plain stressful!...but it will get better!

Smile! Life's too short! (I should definitely take my own advice!)

Don't forget, love conquers all

Don't worry Millie! I get like that sometimes too. I think we all do. It's perfectly OK to feel that way. It's a scary thing when you have a lot going on. I'm sure FH will find another job soon and you'll see that it's better then the one he lost. We love you girl!