I just need some hugs

Original post by bettybcafe

Jul 11, 2007 08:27 PM

Long story short...my BM's (FSIL) husband (which is a loser which no one likes) was not invited to the wedding...so of course she didnt tell him this so she plays it off as if he is...then I tell her..well he can come if you pay his plate. She tells FH's that thats not right and that if I make her do that shes not going to be in the wedding party AND shes taking out her daughter (BM's) from the wedding party AND that I will not be welcomed to the family....I was crying hysterically...Im so upset..

Keep in mind she cheated on her husband with another guy (which was invited to the wedding) broke up with him and went back with her husband.....

Im so pissed right now

twinkletoes807 Posted: Jul 12, 2007 01:05 AM

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znycgirl Posted: Jul 12, 2007 01:07 AM

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Sorry. Sounds like a soap opera.

PegaLega Posted: Jul 12, 2007 01:09 AM

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Oh Millie I dont have words for you I hope that you are able to figure something out that works without playing with your choices

nycgirl79 Posted: Jul 12, 2007 06:19 AM

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Oigh. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this - and 2 days before your wedding! I hope everything works out. Lots of for you.

VadersBride2006 Posted: Jul 12, 2007 08:15 AM

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I'm sorry... regardless of who she is with, this woman is your FSIL! And you did not invite her HUSBAND? Sounds fishy to me...

MF9282 Posted: Jul 12, 2007 08:18 AM

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Oh no Milllie I am so sorry she is stressing you right befoe your wedding! How dare she threaten you like that!

I hope it all works out !

AMANDA2378 Posted: Jul 12, 2007 08:29 AM

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Oh boy! HOw does your FH feel about it?

The entire family doesnt like him, do they know you didnt plan on inviting him?

Remember this is your wedding and and you can invite who you want!

BUT sometimes we have to except/deal with ppl we really dont like for the ones we love. (Trust me, we have an 'in law' that we only put up with to a point for someone we love in my family)

Tough situation!

LB and DC Posted: Jul 12, 2007 08:34 AM

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i am trying not to be judgmental here but i just don't think it's right not to invite the husband of someone in the wedding - it would be one thing if he was her boyfriend, but they are married. she may be full of drama, but i am trying to put myself in her shoes - and i can't imagine any of my friends or relatives inviting me to any kind of function without FH, even if they thought he was a 'loser.'