I just need to vent- warning this is all over the place

This does sound like the Barones!!! Have you talked to your DH about the way you are feeling?

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Posted by MrsStefan

This does sound like the Barones!!! Have you talked to your DH about the way you are feeling?

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We spoke about it most of the day yesterday, and probably will again today. I am so done catering to these people, and not getting the respect I deserve from them. Whenever they need something we are always the first people they call, and like idiots we drop everything and run to do it for them. I know they wouldnt do the same for us, we dont even get a thank you, but if for some reason we cant do something, or we just dont do it, they treat us like we are the biggest pieces of sh*t around.

Well first off

I would definitely talk to DH about how you feel. You sound so upset, and that is not something you should hold inside!

halfway through your post, it made me think of everyone loves raymond! it's a great show, but unfortunately in many aspects, it's sooo true to life. for dealing with this. it sounds like you are so extremely upset. i think you and dh need to really talk this out... it's not fair that you're feeling like this to begin with, but to feel like it's you vs dh as well makes it so much worse. what does he say when you bring it up?