I kicked one of my BMs out of my wedding party

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I told one of my bm's I didn't want her to be in the wedding party anymore. I had asked her eventhough everyone thought I was crazy and said that she would dissapoint me. She has never been there for me in the past (ie when my brother died) But I thought we had gotten past all that. Well at my bridal shower she showed up 2 minutes before me (it was a suprise) and had to leave early because she had made other plans. She know months in advance about my shower and she didn't seem to care about how important this was to me. So I called her today and she didn't even apologize for leaving. She made all kinds of excuses and I had it so I told her I would give her the money back for the dress. I am so sad. I have been friends with her for 10 years and she just kept letting me down when I needed her the most. The shower was the final straw. I don't know whether to cry or be relieved. Thanks for letting me vent.