I knew out of state weddings were different BUT... this different?
cjb88
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I knew out of state weddings were different BUT... this different?
So we just got an invite for a wedding in another state from an college roommate
The outside envelope was handwritten and only addressed to me with my maiden name... she knew I got married and was invited to the wedding and knows my knew last name...
the inner envelope had my first name handwritten on it... does this mean that DH is NOT invited??
The reply card had the RSVP date handwritten on it...
then three little slips of paper came out... one stating that the wedding would be a cash bar... two more with directions on it...
We would have possibly gone because would give us an excuse to visit other family members in the area, and nice to see old friends but when she rsvped to our wedding, she just wrote no, and we didnt get a note or anything... it just seemed so impersonal...and now that DH's name isnt on the invite? NO WAY!
sarahthegreat
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where is this wedding? i know weddings out of NY are different, but that has nothing to do with not inviting both members of a married couple...ie you and your dh.
strange.
LaurenluvsTJ
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that is very odd... can you call her and ask if both of you are invited? It must have been an oversight, no one invites someone to a wedding without their spouse!
Katie&Chris2006
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Hmmm...how strange!!! Weddings elsewhere ARE very different...but I think inviting a married couple together would be standard practice across the board.
cjb88
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the wedding is in Fla
and i know she know's Dh's name because we were together ALL through college and he used to visit us all the time!! and i invited her with a guest to our wedding! URGH!
cjb88
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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ
that is very odd... can you call her and ask if both of you are invited? It must have been an oversight, no one invites someone to a wedding without their spouse!
I dont even know if it is worth it asking her...
sarahthegreat
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i would just reply no and leave it at that. if she wants to call you and ask you why you aren't coming, i'd let her
cjb88
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maybe i'll write Mrs. C. New Lastname when i reply no!
sarahthegreat
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maybe i'll write Mrs. C. New Lastname when i reply no!
excellent
CLMon7906
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Could it be possible that she made her list prior to your wedding and someone else wrote the invitations for her and she didn't double check? I'd call her and ask if he's invited before totally writing this one off.
cjb88
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Posted by CLMon7906
Could it be possible that she made her list prior to your wedding and someone else wrote the invitations for her and she didn't double check? I'd call her and ask if he's invited before totally writing this one off.
not possible... i have been married since April!! and she has know both DH and I for YEARS!! plus she emailed me last week for my new address!
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Posted by cjb88
maybe i'll write Mrs. C. New Lastname when i reply no!
best idea!!!!!!!!! Underline it too!
CLMon7906
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Posted by ewickens
Posted by cjb88
maybe i'll write Mrs. C. New Lastname when i reply no!
best idea!!!!!!!!! Underline it too!
then i go with this as well.
write it in ALL CAPS!!!!!
LaurenluvsTJ
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Posted by CLMon7906
Posted by ewickens
Posted by cjb88
maybe i'll write Mrs. C. New Lastname when i reply no!
best idea!!!!!!!!! Underline it too!
then i go with this as well.
write it in ALL CAPS!!!!!
yes do this! And write a that you and your HUSBAND can't make it!
july06bride
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weddings outside of NY , LI more specifically are VERY different...however it is NOT right at all that she did not put your husbands name-thats just rude!
