DH and I started TTC in October. Got pregnant in November, but I miscarried on 12/12 at exactly 6 weeks. My Dr. told me to wait 2-3 months, but DH and I kinda threw caution to the wind a few times. I've been feeling off with lots of pg symptoms, so I took an HPT last week, and negative. Still more symptoms this weekend, though DH chalked it up to post-miscarriage whackiness. So, this morning, I woke up all of a sudden at 5am, and I had this gut feeling, like I HAD to test right then and there. I ran into the bathroom, took the test and, a few seconds later, I saw two pink lines! I'm PG!!
I know I should be thrilled, and excited and so happy, but I'm just so scared. I only miscarried 4 short weeks ago, and here I am pregnant again... I have my first Dr. appointment on Thurs, so hopefully that will alleviate some of my fears, but in the meantime, I'm going to be a mess!
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MC is my greatest fear and I haven't been through what you have been so I can only imagine. I will pray for you and DH to have a happy and healhty 9 months. Since it happened so easy just think that this baby is meant to be and all is going to be well, very well. Keep us posted.
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Im so sorry you are going through all these mixed feelings..I watched my sister miscarry a number of times and it was extremely hard for her to be happy when she was pregnant..I know it must really be hard...but I am so happy for you!!!! My sister did have a beautiful baby boy and now she is pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl..so it will happen for you and I know its easier said than done..but try and take it easy on yoruself..allow yourself to realize that you are pregnant and its a GREAT amazing wonderful beautiful thing. I will keep you in my prayers, I promise, not only for a healthy 9 months, but alsothat some of your stress will pass and you can enjoy this wonderful time in yoru life. I know my sister wasnt able to relax until her 2nd trimester and I will pray that you find immediate relief and less stress. You hang in there...Im so happy for you!!!
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Posted by aliciahelene
Im so sorry you are going through all these mixed feelings..I watched my sister miscarry a number of times and it was extremely hard for her to be happy when she was pregnant..I know it must really be hard...but I am so happy for you!!!! My sister did have a beautiful baby boy and now she is pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl..so it will happen for you and I know its easier said than done..but try and take it easy on yoruself..allow yourself to realize that you are pregnant and its a GREAT amazing wonderful beautiful thing. I will keep you in my prayers, I promise, not only for a healthy 9 months, but alsothat some of your stress will pass and you can enjoy this wonderful time in yoru life. I know my sister wasnt able to relax until her 2nd trimester and I will pray that you find immediate relief and less stress. You hang in there...Im so happy for you!!!
Thank you so much Alicia... you're so encouraging - you're going to make such a good mommy!!
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Congrats! This is great news! I'm sure it's natural to feel the way you do, but remember, statistically you are nomore likely to miscarry than anyone else - having one miscariage does not up your odds of miscarrying again. So try to relax and enjoy! I'm thrilled for you!
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Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Betty
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Congratulations! Try not to be too worry, just take good care of yourself and everything will turn out perfectly
MayDay16
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Congrats on your new blessing.
Just take it one day at a time.
AnnBrunoXO
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Congratulations to you and DH and a happy and healthy pregnancy!! Take things one day at a time and have faith!! Its normal to worry but when do we ever stop worrying!? I think its all part of the process!
