I know its none of my business

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 06:23 AM

I know its none of my business

... but my MOH just pierced her face and the picture is on FB...

and the first thing I thought of was wow, thats gonna look great in photos...

SeptemberBride2012 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 07:15 AM

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Yikes, but they can prob airbrush it out ?

sjr385 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 07:47 AM

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MrsJPH2012 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 07:51 AM

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I think me airbrushing it out is as disrespectful as me saying something in the first place about it...

I'm not sure if she takes it out if it'll leave a hole (although it would be less noticable), its through her right cheeck, like by her mouth like the Marilyn piecing.

true... I do have lots of time for her to change her mind

Watermelon5 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 08:13 AM

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Completely understand LOL. You can't really say anything, just hope she changes her mind! Or, just airbrush it out as suggested; I don't think thats rude. I have friends who have tattoos on their ankles/back/etc. and I am def going to airbrush it out of the pics (a few even asked me if I wanted them to cover them which I of course said no but thought it was thoughtful!!)

S00n2beWifey Posted: Jan 28, 2011 08:26 AM

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I am sure you can get your photog to airbrush it out!! Just thank god it isnt a huge tattoo on her face!!

chliekm Posted: Jan 28, 2011 08:38 AM

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what does your fh say?? maybe she will take it out for the special affair, but I agree, you can't say anything!

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Jan 28, 2011 09:11 AM

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the good thing is we have 470 days.. hopefully by then she will take it out. Most piercings heal pretty quickly.

Ernial63012 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 09:14 AM

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Ask her to take it out for the wedding! I have an eyebrow piercing and I was in a wedding a year ago and am going to be in a wedding in sept. The first thing I did was ask them if they would like me to take it out. They both said no but I asked cause I knew they might not want that pics!

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 09:42 AM

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Posted by chliekm

what does your fh say?? maybe she will take it out for the special affair, but I agree, you can't say anything!

FH saw the picture too and brought it up before I did, he was mad, 'did you SEE what YOUR best friend did a year before our wedding' then he went on to do a why the hell would she do that , it looks terrible blah blah blah....

I think he was frustrated because I've been frustrated with her over other wedding things, but I told him that its her body and obvi the idea of OUR wedding wouldn't be just crossing her mind.

I haven't seen her in person yet so I'm hoping when I go home it doesn't look as bad as I think it does

JRT5412 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 09:44 AM

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WOW! Well lets just hope she takes that piercing off by the time of your wedding. And maybe by then her hole might heal and close. That's crazy.

midnight26 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 10:29 AM

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that would concern me too...maybe she'll change her mind....

Kuklitsa143 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 12:11 PM

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Posted by MrsJPH2012

... but my MOH just pierced her face and the picture is on FB...

and the first thing I thought of was wow, thats gonna look great in photos...

HOLY Sh*T
You just made me realize one of my BM is all tatted up and have that same piercing LOL

How could i forget it LOL

oh well LOL

BellaRegina Posted: Jan 28, 2011 12:16 PM

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I'm gonna play devils addvocate here....i don't think its a big deal. I'm more of a tattoo person than a piercing person.....but still think its her choice to have done it or not. She must like it since she did it. Its not like you got pierced so it shouldnt really matter what she looks like in photos. Worst case senario, you airbrush it out. Best case, she gets a stone that matches the dress lol.

Good luck, things could be worse.

TeAmoChris Posted: Jan 28, 2011 03:38 PM

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Don't let that bother you!! Most ppl are going to be looking at the bride and groom!

EmilyandPeter Posted: Jan 28, 2011 05:18 PM

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I'm sorry you feel upset about it. You never know what the future brings, so anything can happen.

CaseyCase Posted: Jan 28, 2011 05:24 PM

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Honestly it would annoy me too but I wouldn't say anything and I would have it airbrushed out

Alannah22 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 06:27 PM

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Aww, I'm sorry this happened. Hopefully she will take it out for the wedding. If not, then I would airbrush it out of the pics.

DonnaMarie7 Posted: Jan 28, 2011 07:04 PM

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It would bother me too, but I probably wouldn't say anything and I wouldn't have it airbrushed out either. Even though its not something that we would like, its something that she does and we obviously love the people who we asked to be in our BP, so I would probably let it go. Unless of course she asked me if I wanted it taken out, lol