I know my wedding is not as important to everyone else....
july06bride
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I know my wedding is not as important to everyone else....
BUT, can they at least have common courtesy??? I know (not because I am suppossed to know, but because everyone su*ks) that the RSVP for my shower was last week... my mom had to ask me for friends phone numbers so she could call...well, one of the people that didnt respond was a Bridesmaid! I overheard fh and my mom on the phone talking about how she hasnt done anything, she doesnt return calls/emails... This makes me feel so terrible! PLUS, 3 of the friends that didnt respond are getting married after me...and I am so tempted to be a BIT*h and do the same things to them! Its just not like me... BUT I cant believe how inconsiderate others can be... maybe I am just too kind and considerate of others!
VENT over!
(sorry! )
gNi1125
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Unfortunetely some people just aren't considerate. Sorry your mom has to deal with this...I can imagine it's hard enough planning it without having to hunt people down!
scappy123
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People are such slow rsvp'ers. My cousins shower is saturday and her FSIL emailed me her response last night!!!! I still havent heard from 5 people, i am assuming they arent coming, one of them is my godmother, i knew she wouldnt attend, but at least call me and rsvp........
Kris516
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Don't take it personally! Some people are just 'slackers'. You always have the couple of BMs who do less than the rest, but it doesn't mean they love you any less.
070306
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People suck.. The sad thing is you really learn who cares about you and FH when planning your wedding. Sorry.
july06bride
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thanks ladies...vent is a bit over..BUT I did something I shouldnt have...MAYBE...oh well it made me feel better...
thing is that i dont have a large group of bridemaids, i wanted the people 'CLOSEST' to me...well, I can understand late resonders, BUT a bridesmaid??? she should be one of the first people to respond...oh well! thanks for the kind words...made me feel better!
johnsae
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Posted by 070306
People suck.. The sad thing is you really learn who cares about you and FH when planning your wedding. Sorry.
EXACTLY what I was going to say.....this has happened to me all during the planning process..I've found that most people just don't care
ewickens
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I completely agree with your vent. I have a BM who pulls the same thing!
LaurenluvsTJ
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yeah, my mom had to deal with the same thing. I don't understand why people don't respond to things.
ML110
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i'm sorry! its really sad how you learn who really cares during the wedding process. my best friend and i got married 6 weeks apart- her shower was before mine, and i did so much to prepare, set up, clean up ( it was a house), etc.... so then it comes time to my shower, and i'm in the middle of opening presents, and she goes ' oh i have to leave- i'm having dinner with my FI for his birthday'. um?? that could't wait another hour?? it just really irked me- and really showed that some people just dno't have the same compassion and courtesy as others...
EMES2006
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I am sorry to about the unnecessary and added stress you are going through right now. Although you never want to believe it, but weddings seem to bring out a different side in people. The ones who you to expect to be excited for you sometimes are the ones who let you down.
I'm sure you mother did a wonderful job planning your shower, and although your BM didn't help much (or at all), at least you know there will be a room full of women who are genuinely happy for you!
