I know this has been asked but

t Posted: Dec 31, 2004 09:03 AM

I know this has been asked but

As you can see Im on a roll. with weird questiosn for today since nobody is here. Would you let another individual join you in your bedroom be it male or female? Have you discussed it with your other? just to add spice to your bedroom

Dom n Nic Posted: Dec 31, 2004 10:37 AM

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well since im a work and bored too i iwll post crazy things too..

i dont know if i can actually handle that .
to SEE another women touching my man would make me go crazy .

jantany26 Posted: Dec 31, 2004 11:42 AM

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hell no, i could never look at my husband the same way. I know men in general would love to have a threesome with two women but that would never happen.

Imagin916 Posted: Dec 31, 2004 04:36 PM

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Any man I have ever had a conversation about this with says that they would love to have 2 women together, and my response is always 'do you think that you could even satisfy 2 women at the same time? Most men can't even satisfy one!'

I dont think there is anything wrong with 3 single people wanting to have a good time, but I dont think it should be done by 2 people in a relationship (unless this is a lifestyle for them) because it would totally destroy a relationship.

lolita4life Posted: Dec 31, 2004 05:49 PM

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i'd rather just let him watch!

Janice Posted: Jan 01, 2005 10:00 AM

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I believe in the sacrament of marriage

Mrs_B Posted: Jan 01, 2005 12:25 PM

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i would NEVER and I know FH feels the same way.

btrflygrl Posted: Jan 01, 2005 12:54 PM

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I would NEVER....DH says it's purely the thought of it, the fantasy, but if that were to become a reality, he couldn't do it

MrsTC Posted: Jan 01, 2005 03:53 PM

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no way....that is so out of boundaries for what we believe in.

littlebookworm4 Posted: Jan 01, 2005 04:46 PM

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Hell NO!! Not happening..

Bunnymonkey Posted: Jan 03, 2005 03:16 PM

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Posted by lolita4life

i'd rather just let him watch!

same - I'd bit*h slap her if she touched him, but he would be happy to watch. We have talked about it and are fairly open to the idea - but just wouldn't know where to meet the chick. no skanks and no friends! It will probably never happen, but it's fun to fantasize!

t Posted: Jan 03, 2005 03:26 PM

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

same - I'd bit*h slap her if she touched him, but he would be happy to watch. We have talked about it and are fairly open to the idea - but just wouldn't know where to meet the chick. no skanks and no friends! It will probably never happen, but it's fun to fantasize!

see that is us. Literaly

lolita4life Posted: Jan 03, 2005 03:49 PM

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hey bunny, im not a skank or a friend ::raising eyebrows::

jk!!!!

FH wouldnt want to. He would think i'd prefer them. What a joke. I don't know how i could take him having sex with someone else. I think i'd kind of get jealous... but also think it's kinda hot ya know. whatchign him. hmm.. i dunno.... i always try to get him and my best friend to make out! lol.. thy were under the mistltoe on xmas and then New Years i said KISS!.. he just lkinda icked her face jokingly.

SweetCin704 Posted: Jan 03, 2005 04:03 PM

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Valerie, I'm with you, I think if it was 3 single people perhaps, but not if it was a couple in a relationship. I think you would lose out on the trust & intimacy that you have. Would he/she have fantasies of the other person afterwards? What if the other person wanted to do it again? What if during it, one person got very jealous or just was not into it. Also as another person said, where would you find the person? (online?) You definitely wouldn't want it to be a friend (I don't think).

Tough....

t Posted: Jan 03, 2005 04:19 PM

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before I go any further this is a weird topic to discuss so please forgive me.

Lets say ex: he does not have sex with her just you but at the same time she is exciting you. Does that make sense. Plus you have to feel secure in your relationship. There is that trust thing that you have to have. For me I would feel upset if DH went for the other girl. JMO. You know what I mean.

Anyway, when I get bored I get nutsy and Im bored.

lolita4life Posted: Jan 03, 2005 05:05 PM

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i think you have to have a very strong and secure relationship to attempt a 3way. alot of people fantasize about it. but they dont actually do it.

i actually think it can make you closer though

Janice Posted: Jan 03, 2005 05:14 PM

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Posted by lolita4life

i think you have to have a very strong and secure relationship to attempt a 3way.

my feeling is completely opposite, my love is strong enough that we don't need to add any cheap frills into our 'marriage'

lolita4life Posted: Jan 03, 2005 05:44 PM

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Posted by Janice

Posted by lolita4life

i think you have to have a very strong and secure relationship to attempt a 3way.

my feeling is completely opposite, my love is strong enough that we don't need to add any cheap frills into our 'marriage'

see i dont see it as a 'cheap frill'...

i think that if you love some one enough that it is special to have someone who you can share and explore your sexual self with.

it def takes a secure relationship to have a 3way. this way you all have your fun or whatever but then you know your love is strong enough not to get jealous or worry they prefer the onther person etc....
it could be a bonding experieince in a different way.

i am insecure so i could never have one. BUT if i were ever to have had one i would want to be the 3rd wheel, not the perosn in a relationship.
my ex had plenty of orgies but didnt want to have one with me.