I lost 7 pounds

which is not a lot of weight. But I did gain muscle so it probably looks like I lost more than the scale reads.

And at my shower I had SO many people come up and comment about my weightloss. But not in a nice way, in a rude are you anorexic way.

I have been eating PLENTY but I've been working out. I felt like telling them it's amazing what the body can look like if you get off your butt once in a while.

And like I'm the first bride in the history of the world to lose a few pounds before the wedding!!

Your either too fat or too skinny- nobody's ever just happy!

Id be all smiles if I were you .. I welcome an anorexia comment at my shower in a few weeks.

Great job losing the weight!!! Dont listen to anyone else - as long as you feel great!

FH's family came up to him the other day and asked him if he was anorexic too ... they then asked me if i'm feeding him!

people s uck like that. About 4 years ago I had lost about 20 lbs. the first few pounds people were all complimentary.....

those compliments quickly turned into judgements and people telling me I was obsessed and should get help and to stop loosing..... Umm ok I went to WW and the Gym I wasn't throwing my food up.

It is so frustrating. Good for you and your weight loss! It is something to be very proud of dont let people get you down

You just can't win with people

BUT I'M SUPER HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

hatersssss

i know its hard, but try and ignore them.. cuz u know what?? those SAME people that were rude are the ones who went home after your shower and tried to 'diet' but lasted 6 hours TOPS.

miserable fks

i think some people are just jealous that they never looked as good and can't commit to a diet or exercise, so they don't know how to say nice things to those who can.
screw them! you have to be happy with what you see in the mirror!

Get used to it. It happens. When I lost my weight, my FATHER told me I was starting to look anorexic. It's just because he wasn't used to seeing me this way. 3 1/2 years later, I think he thinks I look normal now

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

FH's family came up to him the other day and asked him if he was anorexic too ... they then asked me if i'm feeding him!

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Omg I got that too because FH lost 12 pounds (mind you he started at 242 so it's not like he was skinny!) I got looks and comments about whether I'm feeding him also. Trust me, he's far from starving!

Thanks everyone. I feel great and am TRYING not to listen to the comments!

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Posted by grkbarbie

i know its hard, but try and ignore them.. cuz u know what?? those SAME people that were rude are the ones who went home after your shower and tried to 'diet' but lasted 6 hours TOPS.

miserable fks

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Posted by jilliibabii

Your either too fat or too skinny- nobody's ever just happy!

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ITA!!!!

my FMIL at first kept complimenting me non stop on my weight loss, now each time she sees me she gets all panicky saying that I lost way too much and I have to stop (I dont know what she is talking about as I am the exact same weight since losing all the extra pounds)

other ppl then feel the need to tell me what a good thing I did losing all the weight as I was so fat
gee tnx my loved ones!

great job on losing the weight - just make urself happy and screw what ppl have to say

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Posted by jilliibabii

Your either too fat or too skinny- nobody's ever just happy!

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ITA!!!

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Posted by regy_k

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Posted by jilliibabii

Your either too fat or too skinny- nobody's ever just happy!

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ITA!!!!

other ppl then feel the need to tell me what a good thing I did losing all the weight as I was so fat
gee tnx my loved ones!

great job on losing the weight - just make urself happy and screw what ppl have to say

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Omg do people not have a filter???

Thanks and congrats to you too and all the other girls who mentioned their weight loss!

Ignore them. When I was in H.S I used to have a complex because people told me I look anorexic, which of course I wasn't. I used to run home after school everyday, buy 3 slices of pizza, eat nothing but junk food, and drink weight gainer. By the time I got into my twenties, I finally gained weight and people would grab my belly and tell me I could stand to lose a few lbs.

So now I say F' them! They're all haters whom think they're helping but are only putting you down when you're trying to make yourself happy. Now I'm losing a few lbs. and I don't give a crap if they tell me I look anorexic again. As long as I know that I'm not, that's all that matters.

I know a few people said this already and I told agree with them- people always have something to say.

I'm been fat and now I'm skinny. And people had something to say when I was fat. Now, they think I starve myself. Either way, the comments hurt.

I dont think people realize that calling someone too skinny isn't a compliment- its criticizing their body.

The only thing you can do, hard as it is, is just ignore it. What do they know?