In your relationships where the term 'i love you' has been used..
Who said it first?
sarahthegreat
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chris said it to me on our second date and i looked at him like he had 17 heads. then he was brave enough to say it again a few days later and i said it back
MrsERod
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I said it first....it was actually just a freak reaction to my emotions because it was over the phone...he was at the firehouse and got the call to head out to the airplane crash in the Rockaways...(Nov 2001) at that point we weren't sure if it was yet another terrorist attack, so when he blurted out 'honey, gotta run' I just blurted out 'I love you'...
nov04LIbride
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elephant shoes???
You dont know that trick--Its from soooooooo long ago??? Lmao!
When you look in the mirror and say elephant shoes, it looks like you say I love you, to make the other person say it back, when in reality, they technically never said it, then u feel dumb. Lmao
LOL we always say olive juice on the phone!
jesslangen
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He said it first
RedHead
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My first relationship...my ex said it first and i didnt' say it until MONTHS later!
12-3Princess
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fh
RedHead
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Posted by lilmrs
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elephant shoes???
You dont know that trick--Its from soooooooo long ago??? Lmao!
When you look in the mirror and say elephant shoes, it looks like you say I love you, to make the other person say it back, when in reality, they technically never said it, then u feel dumb. Lmao
YES! I think I eventually responded with 'Olivers Shoes'
OMG me too i only heard of the olive juice thing
GOOD ONE
jantany26
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don't even remember we've been saying it so so long
me too.
SweetCin704
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FH & I remember not truly being ready so I just hugged him and said you are so sweet.
cocoa
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he did. took him friggin long enought too. there were plenty of times where i debated saying it first, but didn't and there were times that he was on the brink, but didn't. but seven months after we started dating, he said it.
curliegirl
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I said it in a Valentine's Day card. We both were so scared to say it because of past relationships.
he read the card and then he said it back....so who REALLY said it first??
Marcie
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He said it first
February05
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he said it first, while we were.... makin' samwhiches i said Thank you
later that night before we went to sleep, i said it, and he said.... Thank you
maiahsdad
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me
RedHead
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me
beautyq115
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I kept saying that I was feeling it and then one night he was like oh just say it and then I said it and he said it back
ETS..it was a scary experience though...I didn't want to say it and then have him not say it or not feel the same way
Goldi1021
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I wrestled with this for a long time- whether or not to say it first. Then a very smart man who I work with said, 'Just because he might not be ready to say it, does not mean that he is less deserving of hearing it.' In other words, he might need the security of knowing that if he DID say it, that tt would be said back. Well it took me 3 months to tell him and it took him 6 months to tell me. This may sound weird (and possibly conceited but I knew he loved me before he did. Many women have the guy who says the words and doesn't show the actions. I had the guy who showed the actions but didn't say the words. Now he says it all the time and its like the very first time!
