I might go to jail..
for murdering someone right now. I am that mad. I actually might have a coronary.
FH has 2 sisters. Both live an hour and a half away. I feel as though I was kind and respectful enough to make them both BM's. FH made both of their hubby's GM. We also asked all of their kids to be in the BP too. One sister has offered help on numerous occassions, has called me, etc, and we get along great. The other one---a HUGE pita!!
She isn't coming to my shower at the end of this month. She was notified of the date months ago, but decided to plan her family vacation for that weekend. As a side note--she doesnt work and her FH teaches so he has the whole summers off. Interesting they have to go away THAT weekend. She didnt have the decency to call my mom and even tell her this. She fb messaged my MOH! Honestly? Have some decency please.
Then she calls me, the first time in all my months of planning, to ask me 6 months before the wedding when the RD is. Because she doesnt want it the day before the wedding bc her kids will be too tired the next day. I tell her we havent even crossed that bridge yet. So she says, 'have it the week before'. On Thanksgiving??! Awesome!![]()
She then shows up at my MOH's job and asks her about the RD. My MOH says she doesnt know anything about it. She then says how if it's not on a convenient date they might not even come or might leave early. Great.
So last week I tell my FMIL how my 3 best friends planned and paid for a trip to Vegas for my bach Halloween weekend. As a side note, the 4 of us have been doing an annual Vegas trip the past 5 years. So I speak to the non-PITA sister the other day and she mentions Vegas and says how nice and generous it was of my friends to do that for me. And I said how yea, we will do a bach dinner with EVERYONE (3 friend BM's, 2 FSIL BM's, and my cousin BM) in the city sometime in November. She says Great!
Today my MOH gets an email from the PITA sister, wanting to know whats going on for the bach, because her weekends are busy and she needs to know because she is buying tickets for some event to take her kids to. Really? So my shower is an inconvenience, my non-existent RD is an inconvenience, and now my bach is too.
FML
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FH has 2 sisters. Both live an hour and a half away. I feel as though I was kind and respectful enough to make them both BM's. FH made both of their hubby's GM. We also asked all of their kids to be in the BP too. One sister has offered help on numerous occassions, has called me, etc, and we get along great. The other one---a HUGE pita!!
She isn't coming to my shower at the end of this month. She was notified of the date months ago, but decided to plan her family vacation for that weekend. As a side note--she doesnt work and her FH teaches so he has the whole summers off. Interesting they have to go away THAT weekend. She didnt have the decency to call my mom and even tell her this. She fb messaged my MOH! Honestly? Have some decency please.
Then she calls me, the first time in all my months of planning, to ask me 6 months before the wedding when the RD is. Because she doesnt want it the day before the wedding bc her kids will be too tired the next day. I tell her we havent even crossed that bridge yet. So she says, 'have it the week before'. On Thanksgiving??! Awesome!
So last week I tell my FMIL how my 3 best friends planned and paid for a trip to Vegas for my bach Halloween weekend. As a side note, the 4 of us have been doing an annual Vegas trip the past 5 years. So I speak to the non-PITA sister the other day and she mentions Vegas and says how nice and generous it was of my friends to do that for me. And I said how yea, we will do a bach dinner with EVERYONE (3 friend BM's, 2 FSIL BM's, and my cousin BM) in the city sometime in November. She says Great!
Today my MOH gets an email from the PITA sister, wanting to know whats going on for the bach, because her weekends are busy and she needs to know because she is buying tickets for some event to take her kids to. Really? So my shower is an inconvenience, my non-existent RD is an inconvenience, and now my bach is too.
FML
