I might just cry when this week is over...

This week is like one that I don't want to relive. I mean everyone is fine (kinda) and I should be greatful for that. I think during this process my feelings have been hurt SO many times that I just don't have the strength anymore to just laugh it off. First, last Saturday, my cousins GF told me my shower was tomorrow. WAY TO RUIN THE SURPRISE!!! Then from there everything goes CRAZY! I told my mom when she started planning the shower 'It is important that my bridal party is at the shower and all my girls that I grew up with.' She planned it around weddings and everything and picked a date. I found out the other day that one of the girls isn't coming because she's going to Belmont for the races tomorrow! WHAT?!?! She might not be a bridesmaid but I have a lot of family and only 2 friends in the bridal party but I made it a point to include her in everything. I asked her MONTHS ago to hand out programs and I would LOVE it. I also told her I'm going to buy my girls that are important to me flowers for their hair so people know how important they are. So she goes to Belmont? Do I still buy the flower? Do I still include her? THEN last night I found out the girl that told me about my shower last weekend (my cousins gf) FACEBOOKED my mom and her YESTERDAY 'something came up' and she can't come to the shower. Also 3 of my cousins who don't care about anyone but themselves are not coming to the shower. To put the icing on the cake my FSIL (also my Matron of Honor) has a fever starting yesterday AND my shoes that I ordered Tuesday from zappos hasn't come yet!!!! I will be VERY happy at the shower and I can't wait but what is people's problem!!!???!!! I quit people and think I might become a hermit!

PS - I found out my ENTIRE bridal party HATES my FSIL and decided to all tell me this BEFORE the wedding so now I feel like having them all together is going to be weird and make me uncomfortable. UGH! They couldn't wait until later. She's my FSIL, one of my closest guy friends wives, FH and her are SUPER close, and she's become like a best friend to me!!! I HATE PEOPLE

I'm sorry you're having such a rough week. Just try to focus on all the people that WILL be there and just enjoy yourselves.

I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this. Wedding certainly do bring out the worst in people!

Thanks girls! YES, weddings bring out the worst in people! BOOOOOO!
And I will DEF enjoy myself!

Don't let these things bother you. It's your shower, the people who are there will make it up to you by showering you with love and making it a special day.

And if you want to feel better about your situation... I am burying my grandmother tomorrow, and my shower is Sunday. If ever there was a reason to be down about a shower, that's it. And I'm still trying to put on a happy face for my family and because I'm only going to ever have one bridal shower, you can't let other people ruin that for you so don't let these girls get to you. But I feel for you, before all this happened I was upset about something similar with my shower, but just try to put it out of your mind and enjoy it.

Wow - Im so sorry!! That all SU CKS!!!!!!!!!!!!

You'lll have a great time at the shower and a beautiful wedding .. dont let this stuff bring you down. People are selfish ..