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i need a little help from the 07ers!!!!

Original post by TommysWife08

so will someone PLEASE calm my nerves and tell me that not EVERYONE you invite actually comes to your wedding?!?!?

our hall only holds 220 & it seems like our list is growing and growing EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!! i really dont want everyone to be squished & have already cut the list down as much as we could... i think we are up to about 235 already!!! so will someone please smack some reality in me and tell me that things will be okay?!?!?
ejm1219 Posted:

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Don't sent STD's I have a lot mroe coming then I expected b/c of those!

HamptonsBride Posted:

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I invited 217...thank god only about 120 are coming!!!

kavirtue Posted:

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You should be fine. I have faith for you.
TommysWife08 Posted:

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thanks girls!!! you made me feel a lot better!!!

im realllllyyyyy hoping that we get a good amount of people who say no... i dont want everyone to be squished!!!!

FH yelled at me and was like 'why do you think were so special that EVERYONE is going to come?!' lol i guess its just my HUGE fear that everyone will say yes and we wont have enough room in the hall - has that happened to anyone??
NY031978 Posted:

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i think you are fine. I invited close to 240 and we had 170 there...things happen ppl cant make it,OOT's cant make it...dont worry about it!
diva7531 Posted:

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Holy cow, are you ME from the 08 dimension, my hall only holds 220 and we have 237 on the A LIST!!!!!!!!! I hear there is a 20% no rate. Also did you send out STD's?

butapecan3 Posted:

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out of 170 invited 130 said they were comming 125 showed up

punkinedibride07 Posted:

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we invited 179 and 139 are coming.... but don't forget that the vendors will also be in the final head count.

Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted:

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Posted by August12

they say 20 percent do not come, so dont fret ....



i agree
TommysWife08 Posted:

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Posted by diva7531

Holy cow, are you ME from the 08 dimension, my hall only holds 220 and we have 237 on the A LIST!!!!!!!!! I hear there is a 20% no rate. Also did you send out STD's?



no i did not send out STD's..... OMG let me know who responds yes & no!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
Strings22 Posted:

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FH and I were in the same situation...I didn;t want people to be climbing over their chairs and not being able to walk. We invited est. 120 our final total is 98. So not everyone can make it.

Mooshyboo Posted:

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I have heard about 20 % don't come... (I am hoping I guaranteed 145 and we are inviting 180 ish)
NinaChris07 Posted:

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We had ten no-shows and almost 100 people say no!

(PS - calm down! haha - most people's worries is not making their minimum)
Dolce19 Posted:

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I think we ended up inviting about 200 and 170 are coming.

TommysWife08 Posted:

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Posted by NinaChris07

We had ten no-shows and almost 100 people say no!

(PS - calm down! haha - most people's worries is not making their minimum)



I HOPE YOU ARE RIGHT NINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mskittynj Posted:

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Hunny, they will NOT all come!!!!!!!! I had over 20 people that did not come to my wedding the day of!!!! And I invited over 200!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty
NinaChris07 Posted:

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Posted by TM2008


Posted by NinaChris07

We had ten no-shows and almost 100 people say no!

(PS - calm down! haha - most people's worries is not making their minimum)



I HOPE YOU ARE RIGHT NINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Believe me I am!!!

I got nervous when I was receiving all yeses but 20% at least won't come.... definitely more than 15 wiil RSVP no!
TnOiOnL Posted:

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99% chance that you wont get all YES's... but you never know!!!
Each family is different. They say theres a 10% regret chance but honestly you cant know.. But its really rare that you get everyone to show.
We WAAAAY over extended our budget and invited over 100 EXTRA people that we shouldnt have.. So far I only have 20 Nos out of what should be 100
So u really never know!

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