I need hair help!

I'm getting married in 8 days and I know what I want my hair to look like, but I can't find a decent pic! My hair trial was all wrong!

I want my hair pulled back with some loose pieces in the front but I want the back to be down with soft curls. Kinda like a Victorian look, soft and romantic and not too high on top. Just kinda swept away from my face and loose...... Anyone have any idea of what I'm talking about???? I've looked everywhere!!!!!

Thanks!

There is a hair thread...did you look there?
There is a billion pics on it

Do you know what it's posted as?