I need help

With all this drama with my hall and the hotel.. My fi suggested that me and the girls get ready at my mom's and get a limo to the hall. The problem is my mom lives all the way in sag harbor, do you think vendors (photographr, makeup and hair) will charge more to go all the way to sag harbor???

Should we trust that the hall will have the hotel room available at 12:30 or just go ahead and get the limo??

Also, I was thinking since fi and I have to see eachother before the ceremony. it might be more 'dramatic' if i were to get out of the limo and him see me for the first time that way.. and also if we have the limo, we can have th traditional pics of me in the limo etc.. what do you think..

get ready at the place! you will have no problem with that! as for seeing each other there stair case is soooo prestty for him to watch you come down it!!!! i wish i could have done that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i would if i had to do it all over again! i now also wished i would have done the pics before hand!!! i missed so much!!( well not to much because of pics, it was the other stuff but it does help) and am dying for the video!

ets: if you really want the limo still get it for a pick up at you mom's house before you get ready and/or a repick in the morning!!!
eddie at serenaty(sp) limo's was great and his office is in east wind!