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I need help

sugarnspice Posted:

I need help

Ok, so im not against religion, im just not a regular, so I was hoping someone could lend some knowledge my way.

FI and I were raised different religions. We were not planning on getting married in RC church (although we havent found a place yet so who knows) but FI is worried that if we dont get married in a church we cannot do certain things with our children (which we do not have) such as baptism, communion, conformation etc.

Does anyone know about this stuff?
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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You might want to contact the church most make who ever isnt of that religion convert or you can just have a ceremony, But usually if you agree to raise your children catholic they dont mind. But really call around to some churches.

lori7570 Posted:

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I don't think one has to do with another....

sugarnspice Posted:

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But to have children go through such things, do both people need to be Catholic or confirmed ?

Im not even sure if im usuing the right words..... do you know what im trying to say

TIA!!!!
Jna2010 Posted:

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I found an answer for you:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_non-practicing_Catholics_married_outside_of_the_Church_have_their_children_baptized_in_the_Catholic_Church
Jna2010 Posted:

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I would still check with the church though! HTH
stinenandy2010 Posted:

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one does not have to do with the other, if your not married in a church, you can still baptise your children. however example: if your catholic and fh is jewish and you decide to raise the children catholic, when you baptise them, fh must sign some paper that states the children will be raised catholic not jewish.

sugarnspice Posted:

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Thank you!

You girls are so helpful! Wish I had the answer sometimes for others
lori7570 Posted:

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Posted by AliP2010

But to have children go through such things, do both people need to be Catholic or confirmed ?

Im not even sure if im usuing the right words..... do you know what im trying to say

TIA!!!!



I don't think so...my Dad was Jewish and my sister and I were able to get baptized
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Posted by AliP2010

Ok, so im not against religion, im just not a regular, so I was hoping someone could lend some knowledge my way.

FI and I were raised different religions. We were not planning on getting married in RC church (although we havent found a place yet so who knows) but FI is worried that if we dont get married in a church we cannot do certain things with our children (which we do not have) such as baptism, communion, conformation etc.

Does anyone know about this stuff?



I am taking classes to do my confirmation. And I know recently our priest discussed some of things you are questioning.

FM me, maybe we can discuss offline.

sugarnspice Posted:

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Thanks!

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