I NEED HELP!!! BM and MOH dresses!

I have posted a topic about this recently but now i am having even more trouble deciding what I should do........

Ok, Im not sure how I can make this short and detailed but I will try the best I can

My idea from the beginning was that I was going to have my Maid of Honors (2) choose a dress they like but my rules were that it had to be black. Then from there me and my bridesmaids would pick a different dress and they all had to be in black too.

So My sisters (1 lives here and the other lives in PA so its been difficult) chose 2 dresses (which I will post them below). One dress I really LOVE and the other I like but my sister LOVES. So I told her whatever one she likes and if you and our other sister agree on it than thats your dress. Soooo.....my sister in PA has my sister in NY just pick the one she loves (the one I just like) and now thats the dress. I was ok with it until now.

Now, like I said before, the dress my sisters choose will determine the dress for the bridesmaids. First, the dresses have to be the same fabric/material because then it will just look awkward, right? so I pick these 2 dresses that I love! Ill post them below as well. I sent my friends an email with the picks of the dresses that they have to choose from and they all LOVE one and are not sure about the other (which of course, I am in LOVE with).

Anyway.......now that my sisters picked the one that they like, I now know which BM dress will have to be because of the fabric.....which is the one my friends all LOVE. Fine BUT now Im not sure I want them to wear the white on top because Im not sure how it will look and I dont think the styles go together.....meaning the maid of honor dress isnt the same style as the BM dress at all.

So now your probably wondering wth my question is.....LOL!!! Ok.....

1. Do you think these 2 dresses go together style wise?
2. Do you like the Maid of honor dress??
3. Do you think it will look right if my BM's are wearing white on top?
4. Do you all think Im crazy??? lol.


Just so you know.....the first pic is the maid of honor dress......

These are the other 2.....

the first one was the other MOH option which is a no now...which I loved!

and the second one is the other BM dress option which I totally LOVED!

do you girls like these better??


nevermind....pics not posting

Somebody?? anybody???

BUMP

i love the bridesmaid dress! really pretty! your colors are black n white?

is it the same fabric as teh MOH one? i cant tell.

i think they are very pretty. They go together but im not sure how the shapes will photograph together. These were my girls' dresses...

They were so flattering on everyone and inexpensive.

I love them esp the bm dresses. Its ur day
and it looks really nice! Dont worry you are not crazy ur r just a bride like the rest of us who overthinks everything about the wedding!!!

Honestly IMO I dont think they go either. It LOOKS LIKE 2 totally different dresses. =/

I LOVEEEEEEEE the BM dresses! What you can do with a 2 tone is for the MOH, do the reverse if you can? OR just put them all in the same dress and the MOH will have really special bok's which make them stand out.

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Posted by little j

i love the bridesmaid dress! really pretty! your colors are black n white?

is it the same fabric as teh MOH one? i cant tell.

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My colors are black and ivory. The MOH dress is Taffeta and the BM dress is Satin. But they look very similar next to each other....you cant even tell.

Im having a lot of second thoughts about these 2 dresses. I do LOVE the BM dress a lot and it was the first dress I picked but now I think Im gonna go with 2 other dresses and tell my sister I really like the other one she tried on. She did like the other dress too but not as much as this one.

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Posted by lolalovesacroat

I love them esp the bm dresses. Its ur day
and it looks really nice! Dont worry you are not crazy ur r just a bride like the rest of us who overthinks everything about the wedding!!!

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LOL! Thank you! I was hoping I didnt sound crazy!!

I def think though that I am way overlooking things....hahaha! But that normal? right? haha!

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Posted by MikesBride2B

Honestly IMO I do not think the two dresses go together...however I LOOOOOVE that second dress I think its gorgeous and would look flattering on most body types. Maybe you could have everyone just wear that one?

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I dont think they go together either

I was going to have them all wear the black and ivory one....hmmmm....I have to think about all of this!

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Posted by Watever143

Can you just make the top black also....So it would all look alike

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I thought about this too BUT I think it takes away from the style of the dress, no? It would look like a big ole dress...lol, right?

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Posted by Watever143

What were the other dresses you liked

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for some reason it wont let me attache them to the posts...... but they are in my album.

The BM dress it in pink but it would be in black and the MOH dress is in black with frills in the back. Tell me what you think?

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Posted by Watever143

How about the other MOH dress and this BM

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The fabrics are totally different =( It doesnt look right together

1. Do you think these 2 dresses go together style wise?
Style wise I think they go fine. I'm just wondering if they're the same fabric...if it's not then it may look a little weird..IMO

2. Do you like the Maid of honor dress??
Hmm...It's not really a dress I would have chosen...So i'm going to have to go with not really (Please don't hate me! lol)

3. Do you think it will look right if my BM's are wearing white on top?
Yea, I think it'll look good. And its ok if the MOH isn't because she can be set apart from the rest in not only style but color too

4. Do you all think Im crazy??? lol.
lol...NOT AT ALL!

I love the two dresses but I feel the 2nd dress would be a better MOH dress since it stands out and the 1st one would be a good BM dress.