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I need help with tips

Jesaroo2 Posted:

I need help with tips

I know this is early but I am starting to put together tip envelopes and I am putting them in the safe so thats done.

I have a few questions on who to tip but this is what I have so far:

Officiant- $100

Photo(I want to tip TP because he is awesome but its is tacky to tip the owner? I know my dad owns his own buisness and never takes tips)-100

second photo- $50.00( does TP bring anyone else?)

Video( again owner of the company rambing rose) $50?

maitre'd- 450?(im having 140-150 guests)

DOC-$150

DJ-50-100?

Bridal attendant- $50
Hair-50
Makeup 50

florist is a friend of the family and wont accept a tip

who else? Im not getting married at a church so no alter boys, singer etc...


kslmbuggie Posted:

Re: I need help with tips

your pretty much covered...u dont have 2 tip the officiant though.

Jesaroo2 Posted:

Re: I need help with tips


Posted by kslmbuggie

your pretty much covered...u dont have 2 tip the officiant though.



Oh really? Yeah I didnt think I did but then I wasnt sure

thank you!!

do the amounts seem right?
snwb08 Posted:

Re: I need help with tips


Posted by kslmbuggie

your pretty much covered...u dont have 2 tip the officiant though.



i didn't tip mine... but then i felt kind of guilty and unsure if i should have... but then i felt better when I got my pics and noticed he stuck around long enough to help himself to some of the CH food!
snwb08 Posted:

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my advice: don't seal the envelopes. I ended up taking some out of my bridal attendant (who never filled my water glass) and maitre'd (who was totally nice but didn't really do much) and added it to the video and photographers who ran around sweating like maniacs.

Jesaroo2 Posted:

Re: I need help with tips


Posted by snwb08

my advice: don't seal the envelopes. I ended up taking some out of my bridal attendant (who never filled my water glass) and maitre'd (who was totally nice but didn't really do much) and added it to the video and photographers who ran around sweating like maniacs.



great point. thank you
kslmbuggie Posted:

Re: I need help with tips


Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by kslmbuggie

your pretty much covered...u dont have 2 tip the officiant though.



Oh really? Yeah I didnt think I did but then I wasnt sure

thank you!!

do the amounts seem right?



i think u can give the dj $50, & hair and make-up the standard 20%.

and i agree with not sealing the envelopes. if someone doesnt go above and beyond then they dont deserve a generous tip.
MikeandJess Posted:

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I think you should tip TP, if he doesn't want it he'll refuse it. For our e-pics we offered our photographer a tip but he didn't take it. If you love his work and he doesn't take the tip but want to show him a token of appreciation for his services you can always send something nice to his office

Mrs B to Be Posted:

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do you have limos? or flowers being delivered???

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