I need help...re: my FH's bachelor party and lack of plans...
MrsJ
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I need help...re: my FH's bachelor party and lack of plans...
My FHs groomsmen are completely flaking out on his bachelor party. He told them he wanted a clam bake or something outside, very laid back, maybe a fire pit, some good food and music...low key. The B-party is Oct. 9th and his BM only called him last night about it. he told FH that they were going to have it at the local bar/restaurant. FH told them straight out over a month ago he didnt want it there (not to mention our rehearsal dinner is going to be there) . So I told FH I would look in to some ideas for him. Can you girls suggest anything (he isn't in to the strip bar/strippers)?? I need help, he's so bummed out. Thanks! Kathy
Donna
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Some non-stripper ideas -
a ballgame (baseball, football) then dinner or tailgate or the ESPN zone - going to one of those places that have arcades, go-carts, etc - I think Strike - a casino
MrsJ
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Posted by Donna
Some non-stripper ideas -
a ballgame (baseball, football) then dinner or tailgate or the ESPN zone - going to one of those places that have arcades, go-carts, etc - I think Strike - a casino
those are some good ideas, i think he would like the go-cart thing. thanks!
nferrandi
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What if they went up to the Poconos and went white water rafting or played paintball? They could go in the morning, play all day, find a bar/restaurant and then stay the night. They could also go to A/C, Mohegan or Foxwoods. They have really nice restaurants and then they could gamble or go to the nightclubs. How far East do you live? The Crow's Nest does clambakes, you can check into that.
MrsJ
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Posted by nferrandi
What if they went up to the Poconos and went white water rafting or played paintball? They could go in the morning, play all day, find a bar/restaurant and then stay the night. They could also go to A/C, Mohegan or Foxwoods. They have really nice restaurants and then they could gamble or go to the nightclubs. How far East do you live? The Crow's Nest does clambakes, you can check into that.
I'm in Northport, where is the Crow's Nest?? Pocobos is a good idea too - short drive too!
nferrandi
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Here's a sample menu: Montauk Clambake & Barbeque Sample Menu The Crow's Nest Restaurant & Inn PO Box 5063 Montauk, N.Y. 11954 (631) 668-2077 Fax (631) 668-2078 $45.00 Per Person
On our private beach and lawns or at a location of your choice, including any beach on the bay or ocean.
Casting off Salad Bar Fruit displays, sculptures and carvings* Cheese display* Ice sculpture & carvings --------------------------------------------------------------- Under way Steamed mussels - Corn on the cob Steamed clams*- Assorted breads BBQ Chicken - BBQ Ribs - Lobster - Hamburgers - Lobsters up to 8 lbs.* Hot Dogs Soda Tap Beer* 6 clams on the half shell per person --------------------------------------------------------------- Heading Home Cookies, Cake & Fruit --------------------------------------------------------------- Back at the dock Coffee, Tea, Etc. --------------------------------------------------------------- Also Available Raw Bar with Clams, Oysters, Shrimp, etc.* Full Bar with TSL Shell Steaks $4pp Filet Mignon $5pp Tents, Rentals etc.
patti08
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Day of fishing - it can fit all budgets depending what is chosen. A party boat out of Freeport, or a more private excursion from Montauk or pretty much any major port.
SANDNOV12
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I thought I was the only one. I feel that my fiance is getting cheated out of one. He tells me not to worry about it.
Nora101004
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My FH is going to a NASCAR race in Dover, DE this weekend.
You can do fishing out of Jones Beach/Captree too.
There is a rock climbing place in Bohemia, maybe go on a canoe trip upstate somewhere.
MrsJ
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Posted by SANDNOV12
I thought I was the only one. I feel that my fiance is getting cheated out of one. He tells me not to worry about it.
i know I feel so bad for him. we should have just done a joint thing - since we have all the same friends and most of them are married to each other LOL our bridal party alone consists of 3 married couples and 1 that is dating. I feel so bad..he should have a b-party...all grooms should!
MrsJ
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nferrandi - WOW thanks for all that info, I'm going to look in to that!
JacnRob729
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arent guys supposed to WANT to go to bachelor parties....whats with these guys.....they can go to maybe a football or basketball game....or if they play golf, start off with a round of golf....or what about going down to atlantic city, or mohegan sun
MrsJ
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I know! He's less excited about it than I am LOL I think they are going to do a clam bake/lobester dinner at one of the guys houses. Works for me. If they get their act together in 9 days LOL
