I need hugs right now

hmpena Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:44 PM

I need hugs right now

Ladies,

I am feeling so upset. Please tell me that things will calm down and get better as my wedding day approaches.

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:45 PM

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aww hollie whats wrong

MattsBride Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:45 PM

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Things will definitely get better!! What happened?

hmpena Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:47 PM

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Family garbage. It seems like it can't just be my wedding day.

BKtoLI Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:48 PM

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Oh Hollie, I think I know why you are upset (if it's what you mentioned at the end of the night at the GTG).

Things are going to be crazy right now, and people will be selfish and not think about how their words and actions affect you.

I think once your wedding day gets closer, people will realize what you mean to them and will do the right thing. If not, then it is truly their great loss.

You are one of the most wonderful, sweet and honest human beings I have ever met, and I sincerely mean that. If the people you love can not come through for you for one of the biggest days of your life, then they don't deserve to be in your presence.

I hope this helps!!! If you need an ear, I'm here!!!

ETA for spelling

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:49 PM

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aww sweetie i'm so sorry. I know its hard, but try not to let them get to you. Its YOUR day

MattsBride Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:49 PM

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Posted by hmpena

Family garbage. It seems like it can't just be my wedding day.

No matter what anyone says, it is your day! Don't let anyone bring you down!

Sunrise813 Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:50 PM

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Hope everything gets better.

ssdbk Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:52 PM

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things will get much better!!!!!

I was just there and it does get better.

I was so stressed then I had a great time at my wedding!

JazzyT Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:53 PM

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It will, things are just hectic now

October Bliss Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:58 PM

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Laura&Phil Posted: Dec 15, 2005 11:59 PM

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I hope it gets better for you! I feel your pain- just think what it's like to deal with a culture where the wedding is all about the guy! (FH is Indian-his mom is adjusting to it being 'my' day!)

Holidays add to stress so I'm sure that once they are over it'll get better.

Personally, I'd let them know that what they are doing is ruining your day for you if it gets that bad....people don't realize what they do! I hope it all works out!!

gina674 Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:01 AM

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I wish you the best and many hugs

SweetCin704 Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:07 AM

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Hollie things will get better....try not to let it get to you....remember what is most important.......

hmpena Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:10 AM

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Thanks ladies... I am just so upset. I am hoping that sleep makes me feel better... but I can't sleep.

Goldi1021 Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:12 AM

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I think we need an LIW SLEEPOVER to make HOLLIE feel better. Or perhaps a pic of me with my REAL husband will make her smile:

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BKtoLI Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:32 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

I think we need an LIW SLEEPOVER to make HOLLIE feel better. Or perhaps a pic of me with my REAL husband will make her smile:

Leave it to Leslie......I should put up a pic of our new cat misbehaving for a caption.....

Seriously Hollie, you know what?? No matter what happens, no matter what anyone says, IT IS YOURS AND JOHN'S DAY!!! No one can take that away from you!!! Regardless of what happens, just rejoice in the fact that you two have each other and will make the absolute best of what I know will be a beautiful, wonderful day in both of your lives!!!

denise2006 Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:34 AM

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ohhhhhhhhhhhhh it will all be over soon! Just think about your honeymoon :)
I dont know what is wrong, but let other people worry about it......if its possible?

ssdbk Posted: Dec 16, 2005 12:35 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

I think we need an LIW SLEEPOVER to make HOLLIE feel better. Or perhaps a pic of me with my REAL husband will make her smile:

Okay, I just checked out Leslie's REAL husband's bulge!!!

Don't tell her or my husband!!!

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Dec 16, 2005 07:12 AM

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I'm so sorry that people are trying to make your wedding day about themselves But after that ceremony, you're going to be married to the love of your life, and that's all that matters. No matter what else happens, you're going to have a wonderful day just because of that. I know you must be so hurt, but please try to enjoy the last 30 days or your wedding planning, all the excitement and anticipation. Don't let someone else ruin this for you!