last week i told you ladies about my sis who told me she was pregnant after two miscarriages. Well, she came over just a little while ago and told me it happened again!!! its so devastating. I feel terrible and i dont know what to say to her anymore. i cant belive something like this can happen so many times in such a short span of time. i wish i knew what to say or do..........
afrodyt2000
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I'm so sorry hun. There's nothing you can say just be there for her and listen if she wants to talk about it. I can only imagine what it's like to invest your hopes and dreams into a little person that doesn't make it and doing that 3 times over, God only knows why. I know your sister must be a very strong woman and she will get through this. I'm so sorry again.
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I'm sorry to hear the saddening news. I will that things do work out for your sister when the time comes again. I know from personal experience that it is so hard on us emotionally that sometimes it can tear us apart for years. I will keep your sister in my thoughts
and hugs to you for being such a wonderful sister
Soon2BeMrs2006
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i'm so sorry.
JPand TT
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OMG...I'm so sorry. The best thing you can do is just be there for her.
bride_to_be_2007
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Posted by transamgirlie
I'm sorry to hear the saddening news. I will that things do work out for your sister when the time comes again. I know from personal experience that it is so hard on us emotionally that sometimes it can tear us apart for years. I will keep your sister in my thoughts
and hugs to you for being such a wonderful sister
Thanks!
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I'm soooo sorry. The best thing you can do is just be there to support her. They will both need close family and friends right now. It may not be appropriate right now, but in the future, should they decide to try again, they should both have genetic counseling done to see what is causing this. If they are a young couple, this may be an indication of another problem which may or may not have a solution. In the mean time, you and your family will be in my prayers.
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I am so sorry. I agree the best thing to do is just be there for her.
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I am soo sorry carole. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do except comfort her and be there for her during this difficult time. My prayers and thought are with you and your sister. It will happen and it will be meant to be. Here are some hugs for you and your sis
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I'm so sorry to hear this!! I feel so terrible for her! I'm still going to be for the future!! She's lucky to have such a great sister and just be there for her....that's all she needs right now
Gin-Char 104
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so sorry to hear that i will keep her in my prayers....
Athee07
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im so sorry hunny. Your sister is in my prayers
PaddysGirl15
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I am so sorry.
bride2b24
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im so sorry for you and your family......all you can do is be there for your sister
pupidda122505
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i'm so sorry for your sister and your family - all u can do right now is try to comfort her and be there for her
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Oh my god sweetie I am so sorry
I know that it is easier said then done, but the only thing you can say to yourself is 'It was not meant to be'
My prayers go out to your Sister and your Family
bride_to_be_2007
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Thanks all for the kind words! it means a lot.
chrissyandvin
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I am so sorry Carole! I know how happy you were! I am sure you will do the right thing and be there for her for support! I have a friend that has had 3 of them already and its a very difficult situation. Just be there for her and gve her all the support she needs. It will happen one day. Its' just not her time right now. mwahhhhhh
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I'm so sorry!!
kat107
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I am so sorry to hear such devastating news. She will need you now, and I truly pray that she will come through this.