many bakeries can make cookies that are shaped like dresses and paint them to say things like will you be my bridesmaid? stuff like that is cute - especially to bring them all out to brunch or dinner and have those waiting until the end
I made my bridesmaid cards on shutterfly with pictures of me and each one. Came out very cute and everyone loved it!
i like the scrapbook idea with pics of you and BMs through the years- pics of you with each of them at special times, events, etc and then the last one will be you asking will you be my BM
Ahhh Great ideas girls...thanks so much!!!!
I already asked my girls, informally, but I think I am going to do something more official, like a luncheon or drinks.
I got them each a book about how to be a good bridesmaid (it's a half joke half serious book) which a lot of them said they liked because some of the joking ones were ridiculous and the serious ones helped them because none of them have any experience being a BM. And I got really nice cards and wrote them each a long mushy letter about how much I love all of them. I think if you make a scrapbook, it'll convey the same message and they'll cherish it for a long time.
I made scrapbooks and had th last pages spell out will you be my bridesmaid, maid of honor, matron of honor.... They loved it I even got tears from some of them
Posted by Cacarina
OKay...I held off on asking my BMs because of drama that my SIL had had with her BMs, so I wanted to make sure that I chose wisely so there was no drama on my day. So now I think I am finally ready to ask my girls. Any ideas on how to ask??? I was thinking of possibly doing a scrapbook for each, or something with pictures since I am pretty good that that type of thing. Please help...I want it to be special.![]()
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Posted by Cacarina
OKay...I held off on asking my BMs because of drama that my SIL had had with her BMs, so I wanted to make sure that I chose wisely so there was no drama on my day. So now I think I am finally ready to ask my girls. Any ideas on how to ask??? I was thinking of possibly doing a scrapbook for each, or something with pictures since I am pretty good that that type of thing. Please help...I want it to be special.![]()
You are the cutest ever....and I'm glad you can learn from your SIL's unfortunate circumstances![]()
But I can tell you that she was so happy to have you as one!
i love the idea of asking them in a poem
Posted by Cacarina
Posted by NoraPearl
Posted by Cacarina
OKay...I held off on asking my BMs because of drama that my SIL had had with her BMs, so I wanted to make sure that I chose wisely so there was no drama on my day. So now I think I am finally ready to ask my girls. Any ideas on how to ask??? I was thinking of possibly doing a scrapbook for each, or something with pictures since I am pretty good that that type of thing. Please help...I want it to be special.![]()
You are the cutest ever....and I'm glad you can learn from your SIL's unfortunate circumstances![]()
But I can tell you that she was so happy to have you as one!
Awww...I hope that didn't upset you!! I just know how horrible some people were in your bridal party and I don't want you and the other girls to have any drama!!! Can't wait to have you as my BM!!!!![]()
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