I just came back Sunday from three weeks in Portugal which were well deserved. I didn't think about the wedding at all and didn't even touch a computer the whole time i was there.... but now i've been in such a mood where I don't wanna do anything. I was awake for 23 hours on Sunday cuz of airport troubles and already went into work yesterday and today. Now I have a headache. I know I need to pick up where I left off but just the thought of dress hunting again makes my headache worse And the weather isn't helping either! Is this normal?? Am I having vacation withdrawl? I just wanna nap under my desk...
Do you girls have any words of encouragment for me??
ETA: OH! Did I forget to mention that I gained 5 lbs.?!?!
Toucan311
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I just came back Sunday from three weeks in Portugal which were well deserved. I didn't think about the wedding at all and didn't even touch a computer the whole time i was there.... but now i've been in such a mood where I don't wanna do anything. I was awake for 23 hours on Sunday cuz of airport troubles and already went into work yesterday and today. Now I have a headache. I know I need to pick up where I left off but just the thought of dress hunting again makes my headache worse And the weather isn't helping either! Is this normal?? Am I having vacation withdrawl? I just wanna nap under my desk...
Do you girls have any words of encouragment for me??
Oooo vacation withdrawel! Dont worry - the weekend is only 4 days away!
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yep, vacation withdrawal, give yourself a week to get back in the swing of things & then think back to wedding plannings~but glad you had a great trip!
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What is one wedding that you are really looking forward to doing? Maybe start with that and that will help you get the ball rolling again. Or, make an appointment to see a vendor. This way it is a set appointment and you kind of have to go. I know I hate to get started, but once I get going, I'm fine!
HTH
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I know how you feel. Ever since I booked all the major vendors, Ive been procrastinating so bad on the little things. I just cant get back into it. I think its mostly because were a little behind on money right now. I havent even ordered invites and the wedding is a little over 5 months away. I think the feeling will come again though. We have to do it!
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i get that way too sometimes...i have most of my major vendors booked.. but i have a floral appointment tom. and one next week (its really all have i left to do next to hair and make up and a dress)... and i dont even feel like going..arggg!! You will get back into the swing of it though. Once i start getting on the boards i start getting motivated again!!!
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Posted by yelley77
What is one wedding that you are really looking forward to doing? Maybe start with that and that will help you get the ball rolling again. Or, make an appointment to see a vendor. This way it is a set appointment and you kind of have to go. I know I hate to get started, but once I get going, I'm fine!
HTH
oh and here are some 's
Thanks for the 's! I think that's what I need to do. In my mind I still have so much to do that I think I'm all of a sudden overwhelmed again ahhh
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i would take a couple day break. Then set a day , make a to do list and on you go! it's hard coming back from a vacation.
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Vacation withdrawal is the worst. I had it all last week but its getting better.
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Posted by yelley77
What is one wedding that you are really looking forward to doing? Maybe start with that and that will help you get the ball rolling again. Or, make an appointment to see a vendor. This way it is a set appointment and you kind of have to go. I know I hate to get started, but once I get going, I'm fine!
HTH
oh and here are some 's
Thanks for the 's! I think that's what I need to do. In my mind I still have so much to do that I think I'm all of a sudden overwhelmed again ahhh
It stinks to be overwhelmed, but if you can cross one tiny thing off of your list, it will make you feel so much better! Even making an appointment or making a list of things you want to accomplish in the next month... I totally know how you feel, I have days where all I want to do is plan and then others when I don't want to do $hit!
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I just came back Sunday from three weeks in Portugal which were well deserved. I didn't think about the wedding at all and didn't even touch a computer the whole time i was there.... but now i've been in such a mood where I don't wanna do anything. I was awake for 23 hours on Sunday cuz of airport troubles and already went into work yesterday and today. Now I have a headache. I know I need to pick up where I left off but just the thought of dress hunting again makes my headache worse And the weather isn't helping either! Is this normal?? Am I having vacation withdrawl? I just wanna nap under my desk...
Do you girls have any words of encouragment for me??
You are not alone. I was in Greece for a month where I was on the beach alllll day, literally allll day and where it was 95 + deg and up allll day. I didnt think about my wedding or touch a comp and I never had a headache there, but I came back to this: cold weather and alot of work to do, wedd wise and work wise and I have a headache and my back hurts, lol. But all that aside, I am picking up the pieces. My motivation is that my wedd is in 10 months (it will go by quick) and that I have 10-11 more months until I get to go back to Europe, for a long time, AHHHHHHHHHHHH
