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I need some advice..

nycchic_24 Posted:

I need some advice..

You guys are going to think im insane but I got married November 2002 and still havent been back to my photographer for my albums. My mom has to sit down with me for her album and ever since her fiance passed away, its too painful for her to do it. Hes in a lot of the pictures and it brings back all these memories. I really have to get back there but dont know how to approach her on doing this. It seems my wedding is not a bad memory for her but one that brings pain as of now..

Any suggestions on how to approach it?
palebride Posted:

Re: I need some advice..

that's a tough one.
perhaps she can try to think of it as a happy time....and maybe seeing him smiling and laughing in the pictures will help her to remember the good times they had?
or maybe you could go without her.....?
swags1016 Posted:

Re: I need some advice..

Noreen take out anyone with Kenny show her the others and you choose a few with him later when she is not around. I don't think she is ready to see them yet. It will take a few months for them to come in and hopefully by then she will be in a better way and more excited to see them. -- Make sure you tell her when she gets the album though that he is in there!

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