Ok well here goes i reall dont know what to do my FH and I have been talking latly about the future and all and all we end up doing latley is fighting and bickering over stupid little things last night i almost gave him back the ring thats how upset i was he has been married before and is scared that this wedding may not last because of his first experience i have gotten to the point that i am sick of dealing with his previous marriage bs and im tired of having to prove that its not going to be like that. What should i do? say? please help im so upset and i need some imput
MJDoc12
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sounds like your FH may have some unresolved issues concerning his feelings and pain over his 1st marriage. i would sincerely suggest some pre-marital counseling together. you can't go into a marriage with 2 strikes against you...and if your FH has some issues with communication and/or trust, this will only worsen after the wedding!
good luck!!
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Posted by MJDoc12
first....
sounds like your FH may have some unresolved issues concerning his feelings and pain over his 1st marriage. i would sincerely suggest some pre-marital counseling together. you can't go into a marriage with 2 strikes against you...and if your FH has some issues with communication and/or trust, this will only worsen after the wedding!
good luck!!
Sounds like solid advice to me...good luck!
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Posted by MJDoc12
first....
sounds like your FH may have some unresolved issues concerning his feelings and pain over his 1st marriage. i would sincerely suggest some pre-marital counseling together. you can't go into a marriage with 2 strikes against you...and if your FH has some issues with communication and/or trust, this will only worsen after the wedding!
good luck!!
Perfectly said.
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Posted by MJDoc12
first....
sounds like your FH may have some unresolved issues concerning his feelings and pain over his 1st marriage. i would sincerely suggest some pre-marital counseling together. you can't go into a marriage with 2 strikes against you...and if your FH has some issues with communication and/or trust, this will only worsen after the wedding!
good luck!!
Sounds like solid advice to me...good luck!
me too
karen913
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does anybody think there is hope or should i just let it go and move on???
MnM52607
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I agree with the girls. It can only help to have someone objective with you to work through this.
MJDoc12
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does anybody think there is hope or should i just let it go and move on???
well sweetie, only YOU know your relationship. is there anything else going on? has he always been this way? it's hard to just say 'give it up!' cause you said yes to his proposal for a reason....and he proposed to you for a reason!
if you love one another, and WANT it to work, then you have no right giving up on the relationship until every other avenue has been explored!
however, if his behavior borders on physical/verbal/emotional abuse, then you must get out now...but again...only YOU know for sure if that is the case
karen913
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your right and he has never abused me and nor have i ever thought he would he was brought up right so he is the farthest thing from violent i do love him and i know when he says it to me he means it and i know it seams a little harsh of me to say i wanna give up but im tired of fighting this is supposed to be a good and happy time for both of us and i just feel like its losing alot of its fun and love because of all of this and let me tell u guy thanks so much for your advice it means alot and i will def look into some sort of counseling
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Posted by lollipop
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first....
sounds like your FH may have some unresolved issues concerning his feelings and pain over his 1st marriage. i would sincerely suggest some pre-marital counseling together. you can't go into a marriage with 2 strikes against you...and if your FH has some issues with communication and/or trust, this will only worsen after the wedding!
