i need some help!!!!

i need some help!!!!

i have the choice to have my wedding in nassau of suffolk. my sister was going to be the maid of honur but now i have thought about having someone else do it. well my sister is telling me after i have booked my dj that i am going to have to chance my wedding date to a different day. what should i do?

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why is she telling you this?

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Will she be unable to attend the wedding on the original date?

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cause it is her daughter's birthday is on the 15th and i going to get married on the 16th

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Speak with your sister...... This is an extremely important day for you and your family!!

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Are you kidding? No offense!! I share my birthday with my favorite cousin's anniversary and I was thrilled to be at his wedding on that day!!! It's just a reminder for me to send him a card around that time of year.... I'm confused!

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Still not sure why your date needs to change? Over a birthday? This seems a bit selfish on her part ... JMO.

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yes i told her and she told me that she was not going to come to my wedding. so now i do not know waht to do cause she has 3 kids and all three of them are going to be in my wedding party. no clue what to do now.

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Yes, your sister is being a brat, and no you shouldn't have to deal with this. That being said, you may be able to change dates fairly easily considering how far away your wedding is.

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the whole thing is that i do not want to change my date again cause i am going to be gettting save the date cards order and i just now remembered the date.

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I say screw it.... Have the wedding on that day- You sister will show.... I don't know her but she MUST be bluffing or maybe is angry for the minute. My sister, when we are in a fight, has said to me angrilly- I'm not coming to your wedding!- but it's just sister talk and in the end I KNOW she will be there. She'll calm down and realize in the next few months/years the right thing to do and she'll be there.

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my sister told me to go to the cheap way and go to the town office and get married that way but i think that is the wrong way to get married

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Still unclear about how a BIRTHDAY would be cause for you to change your WEDDING DATE?! Especially if you've changed it once already. If this is the date you want, then go for it! When all is said & done, she & her darlings will be there.

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Town office! Are you kidding?! Is that how she got married?! It seems to me that you should stop worrying about her and make your plans as you and your FI see fit. What nerve!

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yes that is how she had got married and the best yet my parents did not even know about them getting married. i guess i am odd fashion then

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You sister is ridiculously selfish! Don't change your date and if be find yourself a MOH who is happy to help you plan the most important day of your life. That is BS!

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TOWN OFFICE- Is she kidding?????? I cant believe that. why would she do this to you on your wedding. Seriously have a talk with her, she is WRONG


Im so mad, I dont even think you should give her the honor of being in your wedding. I know she is your sister but still the NERVE!

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