I need to be saved from myself.. yet again!

JennyAPH Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:30 AM

I need to be saved from myself.. yet again!

Why do I second guess EVERYTHING I do? First it was the dress... that passed... now I am second guessing the BM dresses so we are looking at more, and I am second guessing the photographer so I am looking into others, and I am second guessing the honeymoon I booked, and I am second guessing my veil so I am going to pick out a new one next week.... Oh and last week I second guessed my wedding colors but realized I am too far in to change them now.

I have a serious problem with making up my mind. Good thing im not second guessing the FH

Ok vent over

Jsquared279 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:46 AM

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Hahaha when is your birthday? Are you by any change a Libra??

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:49 AM

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didnt you book St. lucia? why are you second guessing that?!

allegracristina Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:50 AM

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Chilllllllllllll mama!!!! It's all good!!!! It's ok to second, and third guess things!! Just don't make yourself crazy over anything. In the end, it will all be beautiful, so just remember that you like something for a reason and be confident in your decisions.

ELluvsMB Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:51 AM

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I am the Queen of second guessing. It's a horrible trait that I wish I could get rid of. It makes me so indecisive which is really not a good thing when planning a wedding. I know exactly how you feel.

Future Mulligan Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:51 AM

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you sound like me....im still second guessing and my wedding is in like 16 days

Jsquared279 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:52 AM

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Posted by Future Mulligan

you sound like me....im still second guessing and my wedding is in like 16 days

OMG NICOLE! 16 DAYS! WONDERFUL!!!!!!!!!!!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:53 AM

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Posted by Future Mulligan

you sound like me....im still second guessing and my wedding is in like 16 days

Oh my goodness!! I can't wait to see your pictures nicole...seriously, you are going to be stunning! Yay!

FutureMrsC Posted: Nov 18, 2008 10:55 AM

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I have second guessed myself on almost every decision I have made so far! With so much time to plan, its easy to find new ideas. I only ended up changing the BM dresses and I am sticking with everything else. I chose everything for a reason. I think I just keep changing my mind b/c I don't have much left to plan lol

JennyAPH Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:00 AM

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Posted by Jsquared279

Hahaha when is your birthday? Are you by any change a Libra??

April 23rd.. Im a Taurus.. a stubborn PITA!

JennyAPH Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:02 AM

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

didnt you book St. lucia? why are you second guessing that?!

Only second guessing it cause FH burns easily and is not a beach person and we were first discussin Europe and more touristy things.... and I want to make sure he is happy with where we go too... He says he is and he was the one who in the end picked st lucia.. so I will leave that alone, I am VERY excited for that dont get me wrong!!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:02 AM

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Posted by gporka23

Posted by MrsDrinkh20

didnt you book St. lucia? why are you second guessing that?!

Only second guessing it cause FH burns easily and is not a beach person and we were first discussin Europe and more touristy things.... and I want to make sure he is happy with where we go too... He says he is and he was the one who in the end picked st lucia.. so I will leave that alone, I am VERY excited for that dont get me wrong!!

oh good! I was worried! lol

JennyAPH Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:03 AM

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Posted by Future Mulligan

you sound like me....im still second guessing and my wedding is in like 16 days

16 DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!

justengaged1018 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:26 AM

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I totally know what you mean, I second guess absolutely everything I do also, just can't help it! Glad to hear I'm not the only one Don't worry, I'm sure your wedding will be beautiful and everything will fall into place!

ttdiff11 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:28 AM

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lol i second guess everything too but just remember that u picked everything at first for a reason!

jennaandguy09 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 11:30 AM

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Posted by Jsquared279

Hahaha when is your birthday? Are you by any change a Libra??

So THAT'S why I have so much trouble making decisions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) I feel better knowing that I'm not the only person who has issues with deciding!

Don't second guess EVERYTHING, it's all going to work out and you're going to have an amazing wedding

meg922 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 12:04 PM

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Posted by gporka23

Posted by MrsDrinkh20

didnt you book St. lucia? why are you second guessing that?!

Only second guessing it cause FH burns easily and is not a beach person and we were first discussin Europe and more touristy things.... and I want to make sure he is happy with where we go too... He says he is and he was the one who in the end picked st lucia.. so I will leave that alone, I am VERY excited for that dont get me wrong!!

I burn easily, too, but LOVE the beach. If he doesn't have them already, you should see about getting him some rash guards. During the summer, they carry them at places like ****'s or Eastern Mountain Sports. It's a shirt that's made out of stretchy material that has SPF protection.

HTH

Suzanner Posted: Nov 18, 2008 12:09 PM

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I have second guessed everything too. I am still second guessing my RH, my photog, etc. I feel like I have made enough decisions in the past few months to last a lifetime, and they were all wrong!!

espo825 Posted: Nov 18, 2008 12:16 PM

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OMG, I thought it was just me. I was beginning to think I was crazy... Thank God I am not the only one out there!!!!!

I think the reason is that there are so many pretty things out there that it's so hard to pick just one and be content with it for a long period of time. But I am sure that you made great decisions and in the end everything will look beautiful put together.